Childhood Hypersexuality: For Mom

Nov 30 Childhood Hypersexuality: For Mom

Posted by stainedclear in Personal Thoughts and Sharing, Sex and Parenting, Sex and Sexuality

Parenting is difficult. Even if you don’t have kids, a trip to the grocery store, and a look around at all the parents tugging screaming children away from the toy aisles should tell you that it’s no cake walk. A normal child will wear you down, but a child with an illness or disability will turn you grey before you know it....

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Overcoming Shame

Nov 25 Overcoming Shame

Posted by Hot N Sexy TexasMama in Personal Thoughts and Sharing, Sex and Parenting, Sexuality

Looking back now, I probably had four to five orgasms and was close to being done when suddenly my mother stood beside the hammock and dumped me out of it. "You horrible girl" she yelled at me as she dragged me back to the house. "I've told you not to do that. Its bad, and you're a bad girl."

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It’s real. Let’s talk about it.

Nov 15 It’s real. Let’s talk about it.

Posted by stainedclear in Sex and Parenting, Sex and Sexuality

This isn’t an easy subject for anyone, but it’s a real condition that parents and children deal with every day. Our hope in publishing this article is to help readers dealing with a situation like this one find their way. We hope you will read these words and know you are not alone. And maybe you’ll...

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This Is Your Job

Oct 14 This Is Your Job

Posted by Elle Bee in LGBQT, Sex and Parenting

Most of the time, I am not a gay woman. More often, I am a woman in love and I think, overall, I have a pretty ordinary marriage. We fight over the dirty dishes, and who’s going to wash them. We run errands and hope to find a close parking spot at the grocery store. We celebrate birthdays and holidays, and try to figure out whose...

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Moms Against Sexuality

Oct 05 Moms Against Sexuality

Posted by Smokedawg in Marriage, Relationships, Sex and Parenting

So, for a few years there, my wife kinda went nuts. I don’t mean she had psychiatric illness or a breakdown or something. In some ways, it was worse, because for so long, there was no cure and no effective therapy. She got pregnant and decided to get into things like attachment parenting. Now, I’m not knocking the...

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New Mommy on the Post Partum No Snoo Snoo Policy

Sep 28 New Mommy on the Post Partum No Snoo Snoo Policy

Posted by Sonia Garcia in Sex and Parenting

When I discovered I was pregnant, one my fears was not being able to lose the baby weight relatively fast after giving birth. During my Ob visits, I often checked out the other pregnant ladies’ physiques. I knew early on that I did not want to have a C-Section, therefore elective C-section was not an option. Since I had made this...

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Can I Get a (Temporary) Empty Nest Please?

Jul 28 Can I Get a (Temporary) Empty Nest Please?

Posted by Smokedawg in Sex and Parenting

The woes of sexually active—particularly voraciously sexual people—with kids, is a staple of blogging, tweeting and other writing and video venues. It’s a good topic; don’t get me wrong. But I don’t know that I’ve ever read anything about the woes of trying to be sexual when you have teen-aged and/or...

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How to Make Time for Sex

Jun 27 How to Make Time for Sex

Posted by Secret Toy Lover in Relationships, Sex and Parenting

In the world today people are coming and going constantly, whether it be to pick up the kids from soccer practice, or rushing to work so you aren’t more than 15 minutes late. Some mornings we barely have the time to kiss our significant other goodbye, and some nights when we come home we’d honestly rather sleep than waste...

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Making Time for Sex After Kids

Jun 10 Making Time for Sex After Kids

Posted by Boleyn in Sex and Parenting

I never really appreciated being able to have sex with my husband anytime, anywhere (at least at our house) until after my son was born. The days of my husband coming home from work, ripping my clothes off, and us going at it on the couch, or the middle of the living room floor, are somewhat over. And a little undesirable, as...

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Shh! Johnny can hear you!

Jun 08 Shh! Johnny can hear you!

Posted by Teagan Shepard in Sex and Parenting

Sometimes, it’s hard to have a physical relationship when you have kids. Especially when they are YOUNG kids. You and the partner want privacy, but Johnny’s room is right next to yours. Or, Johnny had a nightmare. Or, Johnny needs a drink of water. Whatever the case may be, you just can’t seem to get enough privacy even...

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WotW: Toss Salad

Jun 07 WotW: Toss Salad

Posted by Charvass Taylor in Kink, Sex and Parenting, Word of the Week

I always had a sign on my ass that said “EXIT ONLY” in big flashing neon lights. Nothing, and I mean nothing, was to go any where near it my ass. Fingers? No! Sex Toy? No! Penis? Hell NO! That all flew out the window when I met the man with the the golden tongue. Let’s just call him “Dre”. Dre was a great guy. Very...

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Making Time for Sex When You Have Kids

May 30 Making Time for Sex When You Have Kids

Posted by salaciousrex in Sex and Parenting

Making time for sex with busy schedules can be hectic. But try it when there are kids involved! Then it’s a whole new ballgame. Whether you’re single or in a relationship, it can be tricky to find enough time for as much sex as you want. Some couples feel like it’s a burden not to be able to have all the spontaneous sex they...

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Making Romance Fun for Him and Her

May 30 Making Romance Fun for Him and Her

Posted by Shhhhitsasecret in Couples, Sex and Parenting

A little game. That’s how it started. A small purchase with big rewards. I have been married for six years now and we have three kids. Our spontaneity in our marriage has evolved into choosing a movie or picking up a new game for the wii. I know you can’t just pack up and go across country when you have kids. But why...

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Making Time For Sex When You Have Kids

May 25 Making Time For Sex When You Have Kids

Posted by Brandi Rouxxx in Sex and Parenting

I don’t know about you guys, but I’m sick and tired of constantly hearing people tell new parents that their sex life has come to an end once their baby arrives. Just because you have children does not mean that you can not still have an intimate, private sex life with your partner. Take this from a mother of seven,...

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Discussion with Teenager about Condoms, Safety, Usage, and Virginity or Rather the Loss of It

May 20 Discussion with Teenager about Condoms, Safety, Usage, and Virginity or Rather the Loss of It

Posted by Redboxbaby in Sex and Parenting

My husband is in the military, and this past July we transferred like we do every four years. My son is fifteen. When he told his girlfriend, of only two months (his very first girlfriend, mind you) we were moving 300 miles away, she was devastated. He told her he thought it would be unfair to the both of them to try a long distance...

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Falling into a Role

May 17 Falling into a Role

Posted by Michiko in Kink, Sex and Parenting

As a child, I liked dressing up. I liked frilly dresses and make-believe castles. I made crowns out of paper, and ruled my kingdom of stuffed animals with a heart of gold (or, perhaps, an iron first). So it shouldn’t have been too surprising to me when I realized that I liked falling into a role. It started off as a joke,...

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Kids and Sex

May 16 Kids and Sex

Posted by Teri JD in Sex and Parenting

Having kids is no easy task. The constant attention on them tends to draw from any attention you once had for yourself and your sex life. For my partner and I, our sex life changed drastically when our first son was born. We were the type of couple you could classify as rabbits. We were always at it. No matter what time of...

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The Biggest “Whoops” So Far

Apr 18 The Biggest “Whoops” So Far

Posted by sexyintexas in Sex and Parenting

Whatever happened to the good old days, where kids stayed out of their parent’s things for fear of getting beat or grounded? I really wish that I knew the answer to that question. This weekend I faced probably the single most embarrassing thing that I have ever had the misfortune of living through. Time and time again my...

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Being Intentional

Mar 22 Being Intentional

Posted by BigMama247 in Couples, Relationships, Sex and Parenting

When we first hooked up, we lived in two different states. When we first got married, I was in school finishing my student teaching and working, and he was working full time. Then we had four kids in just under five years. Then we dealt with some severe health issues. Now my husband is in school full time, and working full time. Sex...

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I Just Want My Old Sex Life Back!!!

Mar 16 I Just Want My Old Sex Life Back!!!

Posted by Rebecca in Sex and Parenting

Before I had a baby, my sex life was great. My husband and I had sex…at least four or five times a week. Sometimes more. I was – well, not insatiable, but always willing, and always eager to get it on. In fact, I’ve been the “disappointed” partner in a few different relationships, where I was the one who wanted sex...

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Don’t Stick Your Head in the Sand

Mar 02 Don’t Stick Your Head in the Sand

Posted by Sarahbear in Sex and Parenting

I’ve been married to my husband for nine years. Every year, around the time of our anniversary, we start to reminisce about all the things we used to do when we were dating. I’ll roll my eyes and mention how silly he sounded while he rambled for hours when we first met. He’ll go on about how he couldn’t...

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Motherhood and the Sex-Toy Reviewer

Feb 28 Motherhood and the Sex-Toy Reviewer

Posted by BBWTalks in Sex and Parenting

Being a mom and being a sexual creature is sometimes an oxymoron. Obviously mothers are sexual or there would be no conception. However, the first three years of the life of a child are wrought with diapers, vomit, cracked nipples, unwanted weight, sleepless nights, and much, much more in varying degrees. It usually gets better in...

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Sex Ed

Feb 25 Sex Ed

Posted by TheVieuxCarre in Sex and Parenting

I enrolled in a course in human sexual behavior, mostly because I wanted a buffer class for the semester since I’m taking some rather hard classes. Senior year in college sucks, since you’ve taken all the easy stuff in the beginning. I went to my first class and we discussed the syllabus and what the class expectations were...

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De-stressing my Life

Jan 12 De-stressing my Life

Posted by Nicky in Sex and Parenting, Sexuality

Before having my son, I never really had to deal with stress. Sure, I had it at work and sometimes at home, but I was pretty good at handling it all. I could leave work-related stress at the door and never carried it home with me. Any other stress I could let easily roll of me with the thinking that everything would be alright. Now...

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Sex During Pregnancy and Beyond

Dec 10 Sex During Pregnancy and Beyond

Posted by Nicky in Sex and Parenting, Sex and Sexuality

All of my life, I have never been one that has had to have sex. It just wasn’t a big deal to me. Maybe my ex’s were partially to blame. I first had sex when I was 16 years old with my high school sweetheart. I didn’t have my first orgasm that was produced by someone other than me until I was 22. It took 6 years for me to meet...

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Postpartum Sexiness

Oct 29 Postpartum Sexiness

Posted by admin in Relationships, Sex and Parenting, Sex and Sexuality

Finding the confidence to feel sexy again Childbirth can be the most beautiful, surrealistic experience in the world. It can also be the most painful thing you will ever experience in your woman hood. The gift of life is an amazing thing, and women are such amazing creatures to possess the ability to give it. However, the beauty...

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Why I Don’t Want Children

Oct 15 Why I Don’t Want Children

Posted by Mistress Kay in Sex and Parenting

I went to a mall with my boyfriend this weekend. It was apparently a bad idea. While both the boyfriend and I are college students, we still tend to go out during odd-hours for the rest of the world – either during the middle of the night or during the middle of the day when everyone is at work. Let me tell you – going...

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Breastfeeding

I have two kids and breastfed both of them, actually I’m still breastfeeding my youngest who’s 16 months. While there are great benefits to doing this there are down sides. While preaching how it’s better for baby they fail to tell you about the physical demand on your body. The doctors, professionals, lactation...

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Keep the Flame Lit

Having children is a wonderful experience. Growing up, getting married, and having a family is what we all dreamed of when we were kids, right? Our dreams soon turn into it’s your turn to change the diaper, easy grab dinners, and working over time just to pay the mortgage. Okay, so not everyone has this exact experience, but I...

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Dear Teenagers

There are times when my twitter stream makes me feel old. Times when I wonder what I am doing being friends with a group of people who are clearly at a different place in their life than I am. I guess there isn’t really anything wrong with befriending these people, though I do find myself needing to bite my tongue when I read the...

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Dear Moms

** a week late, but so valid anyhow!* It’s Mother’s Day, so many of my friends Facebook/Twitter statuses are praising their mothers for being such kind, sweet, good-smelling role models, and so on and so forth. I called my Mom up to wish her a Happy Mother’s Day, and then told her I was going to be doing homework. Instead of...

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Don’t Make Me That Woman

I, along with my 2 life partners, have three children. We have two daughters, who are 11 and 13, and a son who is just 3 months old. We struggle with the knowledge that our daughters are rapidly approaching young adulthood. With this in mind I found myself watching a television program with my oldest daughter. The subject was...

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Giving the Family Sex Talk

By: brazenbonbon “Never have I ever had a mirror above my bed,” my sister says as she glances at our father and smirks, referencing his sex, drugs, and rock and roll period during the Seventies. My sister’s friends laugh as they spoon more rice and chicken onto their plates. “Come on Dad, I know you have; Grandpa told us at...

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Sexy Time and Babies

Before I was the mother to a darling wee one, my sex life was anything but quiet. I had been known for being loud, leaving marks on walls, spreading too much info whenever I could and showcasing my sexual experiences on my blog. There was even this one time while I was on a sexual escapade- drunken stupor and all- that I busted a...

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Bunnies and Babies (Or How We Started A Family)… continued

Part 2 : The Best Laid Plans The next morning, my husband went to work early. I was up, lounging around in a robe and playing on the computer. At one point, I felt something like a “pop.” It didn’t hurt, and I didn’t pay much attention to it. Until I stood up. Apparently the popping I’d heard was my water breaking, and...

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Sex after Children

Sex is never, ever the way it’s portrayed in movies. I don’t care how much money you have or how in love you are. You don’t always start out kissing passionately. You don’t move seamlessly into new positions. Fireworks don’t shoot off in the distance and unless you have ‘your song’ on repeat...

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Bunnies and Babies (Or How We Started A Family)

Part 1 : I’m Going To Do It Naturally! When I got pregnant for the first time, my husband and I were thrilled and scared. We thought we could even pinpoint the night it happened. We had decided a few weeks before that it was time to start a family, and I had gone off the pill. The doctors told us it would probably take a few...

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Sex, Pregancy, Motherhood

I had been a little apprehensive to write this because of how hard I’ve been working to regain my identity over the last year, but after watching an episode of ‘Teen Mom’ on MTV I felt it was necessary. What really struck a cord with me was the way one of the girls was treated by her family after having her child....

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