Eden Cafe

5. March 2010

Kissa – Will it Make you Purr?

Have you seen the Kissa yet? Kissa, with it’s six inches of fabulously textured, nubbed and swirled glass – that vibrates! How often have you looked at glass dildos with their beautiful textures and wished the had a bit of buzz? I know I have, and often!
Kissa is the first toy Eden Fantasys has decided [...]

11. March 2010

0 Comments

M/s : Honorifics

A while back, I heard a rumor. Someone thought it was absolutely abhorrent that I am required to call M “Master” when speaking to or about him, and that I’m usually required to capitalize “he” and “him” when I’m writing. Today, while trying to pick a topic to discuss here, I thought about [...]

11. March 2010

1 Comment

Playing Dumb

Back in the day (I’m vague on which day exactly but nevertheless…) women had the reputation for “playing dumb.” I’m under the impression that this had something to do with not emasculating their objects and therefore winning them over with their docility and allure. Ultimately I think the goal was to get them down the [...]

11. March 2010

4 Comments

Kinky Pride

$Kinky Pride$

I have a hard time keeping my mouth shut. I like to talk to people about everything. I am definitely an extrovert. Which became a problem when I started a kinky relationship; I was faced with the problem of keeping my mouth shut or possibly alienating friends. I hear that quite [...]

10. March 2010

0 Comments

e[lust] #9

HNT Courtesy of Margaret at They Belong to Us
Welcome to e[lust] – your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #10? Start with [...]

10. March 2010

0 Comments

Transtastic: On Being Young and Trans

I’m not well versed in any body of knowledge that could be termed “transgender history.” So you’ll have to take it with a grain of salt when I say that I came of age in a unique, historical turning point in the life of the trans community. I can’t put a date on when [...]

10. March 2010

1 Comment

Fears of a Secret Genderqueer

I’m nervous about packing.
Since I don’t disclose myself though I do openly cross dress, I’m sure people have their assumptions. Considering that I work publicly in front of a group of people at least once a week, I feel almost like I’m on stage. I know what it’s like to be on stage after eight [...]

10. March 2010

3 Comments

The Best of Both Worlds or Lost in Limbo?

Greedy, unsure, just experimenting, going through a phase, a slut, a liar.
All things that I have heard bisexual people referred to as, in today’s so-called modern society.
Whether intentional or unthinking, bisexual denial is a frustrating thing for bisexual, pansexual or ‘fluid’ people to have to deal with. It became unacceptable, in the majority of places, [...]

9. March 2010

21 Comments

The Sex Spectrum

I’ve come up with the following Sex Spectrum – where do you fall? Where do(es) your partner(s) fall?
Repressed – Thinks sex is distasteful, doesn’t recognize any fetishes or fantasies, thinks genitals are ugly, has sex in the dark, doesn’t masturbate, could easily do without sex
Vanilla – Holding, cuddling, standard sex positions, passionate lovemaking, vacation [...]

9. March 2010

2 Comments

The Hard Way: I am a Bastard

When I was finishing up elementary school, my sister fell ill and eventually succumbed to a blood disease. It was around this time that I came to know that she was only my half sister (we shared the same mother) and that her father was not my father. Up until this point, this was a [...]

9. March 2010

2 Comments

WotW: Novelty

We sex toy buyers and reviewers see this word on various kinds of packages: “Sold as an adult novelty only.” I’ve noticed plenty of people (mostly toy reviewers) get upset over the word “novelty” as though the manufacturer put it there to insult their intelligence. Or they see it as evidence that a toy is [...]

8. March 2010

3 Comments

The Human Pheromone: truth vs controversy

Lately I have noticed the toll that pheromones have taken on the sex industry. It is a major market tool and actually is massively growing in the sex community. Pheromones are now found in various forms including, but not limited to: perfumes, lotions, oils, candles, supplements, etc. I never really knew what they were, and [...]

8. March 2010

2 Comments

Kinky Winner!

Well, ok, I’m not entirely sure how kinky the actual winner is but the winner of the kinky contest, who gets all those Divine goodies – collar, wrist and ankle cuffs and a fab blindfold – is…
J! (Whose icon says Babies, Boobs and a Blog)
Woohooo! Congrats, J! Shoot me an email at edencafeadmin at gmail [...]

8. March 2010

8 Comments

Rape in the Movies

What do the movies “Hollow Man”, “Deliverance”, and “An American Haunting”, “High Plains Drifter” all have in common? All of these movies feature, in one way or another, rape. Otherwise good movies, ruined for me with the inclusion of [...]

6. March 2010

1 Comment

Pleasurists #67

stones by Todd V. Wolfson
Pleasurists is a round-up of the adult product and sex toy reviews that came out in the last seven days. For updates and information follow our RSS Feed and Twitter.
Did you miss Pleasurists #66? Read it all here. Do you have a review for Pleasurists #68? Be [...]

5. March 2010

10 Comments

Red Flags of an Abusive Partner: Part I

Many people are interested in ways they can predict whether they are about to become involved with someone who will be abusive. There are red flags of potential batterers, if you know what kinds of behaviors and patterns to look for. Some of them are more obvious than others. For a full list of warning [...]