Love is Back (Contest)

8. February 2010

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Love is Back (Contest)

At this point, most of us recognize that slogan, don’t we?  The slogan and the funky, backwards text on the amazing Evolved packaging?  And how fitting for the week before Valentine’s Day, don’t you think? Because it’s so fitting — and because Evolved has come out with some totally excellent new vibes called the Roulette [...]

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e[lust] #7

8. February 2010

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e[lust] #7

HNT Courtesy of Coy Pink
Welcome to e[lust] – your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #8? Start with the rules, check out the [...]

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Love Letters

8. February 2010

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Love Letters

There are plenty of reasons to write a love letter, and just as many methods.
Writing a love letter is hard. Don’t worry. It’s like that even for those of us that write constantly, or write for a living. There’s something about spilling your guts on paper that makes it scary and intimidating for everybody. Write [...]

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8. February 2010

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Luxury V-day Winners!

Luxury V-day Winners!

Well, weeding thru all the lovely Valentine’s Day plans made my heart go pitty pat, people! Y’all are so romantic!
I’m one of those anti Valentine’s Day people, myself, but it’s still nice to see all the romance and love floating around, no matter the reason.
And now, without further ado, our winners.
The Jimmyjane Little Chroma [...]

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8. February 2010

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Still Romantic After All These Years

Still Romantic After All These Years

I love Valentine’s Day. I have from the time I was a kid. Back then, the day meant spending hours making cards at home the week before because we couldn’t afford to buy any. Then bringing them to school, making mailboxes out of paper plates, and putting your Valentine’s cards in each [...]

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5. February 2010

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Biopsy

Biopsy

Tomorrow, my boyfriend gets a biopsy.
At the risk of sounding like a petulant child, it’s not fair. He’s not even 50 and has never had any signs of prostate problems before now. Sure, he might run into burning buildings to save people on a weekly basis, but his turnout gear is supposed to protect him [...]

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5. February 2010

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Foods, Force Feminized!

Foods, Force Feminized!

Since when did it happen that only women want to be healthier, eat healthier, care about their body and aspire to look or feel better in general by eating more good food and less junk food?
But first, let me go off tangent here and say that actually there’s quite a lot of “diet food” that [...]

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5. February 2010

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Pleasure in Food — finding a balance between yum and healthy

Pleasure in Food — finding a balance between yum and healthy

I’ve rarely been a person to deny herself pleasure. I’ve done some things in my past that I am not proud of anymore, in pursuit of said pleasure. And by “pleasure” I’m not just talking about sex, lol.
But sometimes it was about sex. Or food…..yeah a lot of it has been about food. Sometimes material [...]

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5. February 2010

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Caring About Myself

Caring About Myself

Recently I talked about how I was trying to find my femme side again. When my husband finally read that post, he came to me with heartfelt tears in his eyes and said “You don’t know how long I’ve waited to see this happen”.
Since the death of my father 12+ years ago, I was different. [...]

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4. February 2010

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The Ultimate Commitment

The Ultimate Commitment

I wish society would stop touting marriage as the ultimate commitment. I don’t find anything special or particularly noteworthy of any couple that marries. And I’m definitely not impressed by people who get married. They’re no different than an unmarried committed couple. I’m not going to afford them any extra respect. And yet that’s seems [...]

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4. February 2010

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A No Limits Slave?

A No Limits Slave?

I’m a “no limits slave”. There. I said it. Bring on the barrage of flaming and snark.
There’s no such thing as a “no limits” slave, Rayne. Everyone has limits.
You’re right. Everyone has limits. Everyone has lines they’d rather not cross. Things that completely squick them out or totally [...]

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4. February 2010

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I Am the Other Woman

I Am the Other Woman

Usually when people think of the “other woman” a man has in his life, it is usually a negative idea or thought. The other woman usually is a secret and just around to fulfill fantasies and sexual favors that the wife or girlfriend may not do on the regular basis. Usually the other [...]

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3. February 2010

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Transtastic: On Coming Out Conversations

Transtastic: On Coming Out  Conversations

I knew my life would change when I graduated my hippie liberal arts college (known henceforth as HLAC) in the Northeast and moved to the South. I knew that I would start identifying sweet tea and biscuits as two major food groups, that race relations would take on an entirely new flavor, and that [...]

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3. February 2010

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Pleasurists #63

Pleasurists #63

In the Looking Glass by PerryGallagher
Pleasurists is a round-up of the adult product and sex toy reviews that came out in the last seven days. For updates and information follow our RSS Feed and Twitter.
Did you miss Pleasurists #62? Read it all here. Do you have a review for Pleasurists #64? [...]

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3. February 2010

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Tightrope Walk: Loving a Transgendered Parent

Tightrope Walk: Loving a Transgendered Parent

Last year, I found out that my father was transgendered. He* had already begun the transition to become a woman. My mother knew long before my sister and I did, and had wrestled through the decision to stay by her spouse, regardless of gender. We all decided to get through this together, as a family [...]

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