Say the word “watersports”, and you may not be met with the most positive reception. However, watersports isn’t too rare of a fetish. Watersports is defined as “a sexual activity that typically involves urinating on oneself or being urinated on by others”. The first image that pops into most peoples minds is someone being urinated on by another person. However, watersports includes many others categories such as desperation, wetting, drinking, public peeing, and golden showers. The interesting thing about this is that people who are turned on by one category may be repulsed by others.

Golden showers is when one partner urinates on the other partner. In heterosexual couples the female is usually the receiving partner. Golden showers are a prevalent fetish in the gay community. It involves a very intimate bond between the two participants.

Public peeing includes people who are turned on by the prospect of someone peeing somewhere other than their home. This may include outhouses, public bathrooms, or even just having someone squat next to a tree outside. Some people also enjoy wearing diapers and wetting themselves while doing mundane things like buying groceries. The thrill out of public peeing usually comes from the fact that they could be discovered, and when it comes to peeing outdoors – from urinating somewhere they “shouldn’t” be. This may also include peeing in places like movie theaters or dressing rooms but the watersports community is split on this issue – is it really fair to have to force someone else to clean up after you?

Drinking is one of the rarest forms of watersports. People into drinking enjoy drinking their or their partner’s urine. Some enjoy the taste while others get off of doing something so “humiliating”.

Wetting is probably the most common form of watersports. People who enjoy wetting like to watch the man or woman pee through their clothing. Depending on the person, they may have a preference for the type of clothing as well. Some like only panties, and there’s also another huge following for jeans. Surprisingly enough, most people into wetting aren’t into the desperation aspect of it. Most people who enjoy wetting like feeling the warmth and doing something that is so inherently wrong.

Desperation is just how it sounds. People who are into desperation are either turned on by watching others be denied the use of the toilet or by being denied use of the toilet themselves.

Another small group that I feel I should mention is those who enjoy diaper play. Some people into diaper play like to wet their diapers. It usually is more involved with living out the age play fantasy, but some people do enjoy wearing diapers just for the ability to be able to wet them.

I have to say that I’m part of the desperation camp. To me, there’s nothing more erotic than having enough of someone’s trust that they will allow you to deny even such a basic right as use of the bathroom. To me, there’s nothing more erotic than having a person beg for the use of the bathroom.

I’ve tried to figure out how in the world I ended up enjoying such an out-there fetish, and no matter how many angles I look at it from, I can never figure out where it came from. Ever since I remember having access my first copies of erotica, I’ve enjoy watersports.

I struggled with it when I was younger. When I heard people talking about sexual activities at school, it never included things like that. In fact, it was downright mocked anytime something like that was brought up. I struggled with feeling like the biggest freak on the planet. Everyone else was perfectly happy with just sex. I liked to watch people avoid using the toilet – I couldn’t imagine any universe where that was normal.
I continued feeling like a stranger until I encountered some online forums that focused on watersports activity. Other people seemed to enjoy it just as much as I did. What a relief! I read the happy posts about advice, and I read the sad posts about how a spouse would leave them after finding out about this fetish.

After reading so many of those sad posts, I was worried for my own future. If these people, who had been married for years, were splitting up over this, how could I manage to hold onto someone I had just found? I had a couple dates, and while watersports isn’t an obsession, it is a “must-have” for my relationships to work. I consider it my main fetish and having my partner be grossed out by my favorite activity just wouldn’t work for me.

It is a happy ending, though. I did find my current boyfriend, and we do participate in it on a daily basis. He enjoys the wetting aspect, and I enjoy watching him be desperate. It works out well for the both of us. Despite my bad start with understanding my love of watersports, I have to say that it has made me more accepting of other’s fetishes.

If it interests you, I’d encourage you to talk to your partner about it. It’s possibly one of the most intimate things you can do with your partner. There are a few safety concerns, though. While urine is safe to have on the skin, never drink urine that isn’t fresh. Think about protection to your furniture and carpets, and try your activities in the shower.

Some interesting facts:
While watersports is practiced in the BDSM community, it’s actually most common among the regular, non-BDSM participant. Many BDSM practitioners use it for its use with humiliation and degradation for the receiving participant.

In New Zealand, publishing anything that supports watersports is punishable by up to ten years in prison.