When does a harness become a strap-on?

Your new harness comes in the mail and you excitedly take it out of the box and strap it on.  You finally figure out all the straps and adjust it for fit.  Turning to admire your new harness in the mirror you realize something is missing. You have strapped it on, yet it’s not quite yet a strap-on. There is a hole aching to be filled.

So it’s obvious what that hole needs to be filled with. It needs a firm hard dildo slid into it.  Getting a new harness when you don’t have any dildos is worse than realizing you don’t have batteries for your new vibrator. After-all, you can still use a vibe without the vibrations.

Hopefully you aren’t in the peculiar situation of standing there realizing you don’t have any dildos. If you are, stay calm, it’s going to be okay.  Many harnesses come with one or more attachments. However, if you ordered in a hurry and did not check the details, you may find being dildo-less. The good news is that EdenFantasys ships out orders quick! You won’t have long to wait. While perusing for your new toy, you will want to prepare yourself to have almost unlimited choices in shopping for something to fill that hole.

It might be a good idea to check in with the owner of the other hole that needs filled. There are decisions to be made; length, girth, appearance, balls or no balls. You may drool over a particular dildo to strap on, but if you want it sucked or fucked the other person will likely have preferences.  They get dibs on choosing that part of the strap-on.

So hopefully you have a harness and a dildo.

If so, you have a strap-on.