“Because now any woman who speaks of her G-spot is subject to being patted on the head and condescendingly told she is only imagining things.”

Really? Because I don’t know anyone who took the article seriously (or anyone beyond the sex blogosphere who even mentioned it!) and anyone who would treat me that way is someone I will be blocking/deleting/ignoring/and possibly harming bodily anyway. Maybe I just happen to know people who aren’t as douchey but I think this is just going to be forgotten anyway. In fact, I’d already forgotten it until I read this.
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True studies seem to indicate that some women do have a g-spot, and some don’t, yet you appear to reject that claim as well (with the reason being, you have one, therefore all women must). That’s not a logical conclusion to draw, based on the available facts.

Everyone has google access, and I’d advise everyone to take some time and do some reasearch, excluding reports on “mass media” websites such as CNN, Fox (ick), etc. I would agree that it’s important that women have factual information, but would add to that by saying lets give some, because there wasn’t any in this post (I had no references in mine either, so I’m just as guilty).

To get everyone started:

Measurement of the Thickness of the Urethrovaginal Space in Women with or without Vaginal Orgasm – http://www3.interscience.wiley.com/journal/119425573/abstract?CRETRY=1&SRETRY=0

(based off of and references the previous): Ultrasound nails location of the elusive G spot – http://www.newscientist.com/article/mg19726444.100-ultrasound-nails-location-of-the-elusive-g-spot.html

To be fair, a negative reaction to the New Scientist report – More inaccurate g spot information from New Scientist – http://www.mysexprofessor.com/warnings/more-inaccurate-g-spot-information-from-new-scientist/

However, I would caution putting too much into the post on mysexprofessor.com. Her first point is a complaint about the words “nailed” and “g-spot” being in the report title. That has to do with the study.. how? She is also arguing some other issues (such as the New Scientist report saying that women without a g-spot can’t have vaginal orgasms, which I also thought was a little funny). It’s interesting to note that the person who made that statement was a female MD involved in the study. I’m not sure if that makes her more or less believable, but you always have to consider the source.

The existence and/or location of the g-spot is not an emotional issue, it’s a physical one. If everyone is uninterested in the facts, then this isn’t a debate, it’s a lecture.

Finally, as a dominant male, I see no value in trying to make women believe the g-spot doesn’t exist. In fact, I would view that as a negative. It’s another “button” for me to manipulate, and I surely like buttons.
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