They say I’m crazy, but what exactly is normal?

I will preface this article by stating that I play and get my jollies off of activities that most people would either turn their nose up at or just simply look the other way from.  I am a very sensual woman and I enjoy the release I gain from sensual play.  Recently I was introduced to a form of play and passion that I had been afraid to try before.  I was introduced to the sensations that body stapling and fire play can provide.  Now, I will say that this play is not for everyone and if you do not know what you are doing do not do it.  That is my disclaimer before someone reads and decides to try this for him/herself and ends up hurt or hurting his/her partner.

First, I will touch on the body stapling.  I had seen this performed before with one of those large metal staplers that you can get at any hardware store with the staples to go with it.  I was terrified of experimenting with this form of play because it can cause bleeding and a bit more pain than I am used to.  I did approach my fear this weekend, though, with much more mild staples and stapler.  My partners for this activity used a small medical stapler with medical staples.  They put one in my arm and it felt pretty much like getting a shot from the doctor. They removed it immediately and put another in just to get me used to the feeling.  I bled a small bit and that was the end of the play.  It was highly intoxicating and I really enjoyed the feeling of it.

After we had finished the stapling introduction, we moved to a table and began to play with fire.  I lay on my stomach and allowed my partners to gently move along my back with the tongs that were lit.  As soon as the fire hit my skin they immediately extinguished the flame with their hands.  They repeated this over and over again.  The fire was so warm on my back and turned into a mild massage.  It helped me to calm down from the rough play we had done earlier that night.  The fire didn’t hurt and served as a very calming experience for me.  It helped me to come down and prepare to leave the party for the evening.  It brought me and my partners a lot closer than we had been before the party and it was definitely a wonderful experience.

Most people would frown upon my life and the way I live it.  Most people would be afraid to approach their fears.  I am writing this not only to tell you all of my experience but to encourage you all to embrace your fears.  Embrace and approach them.  The worst thing that can happen is you realize that you really don’t like that fear.  Keep an open mind and never be afraid to expand your horizons and try new things.