After one of my first blog/articles called “Things I love and hate about porn” I got some heat which made me laugh because I said I don’t like anal sex. It was funny as hell to me that people were getting so pissed at that when most of the article was about my hate for the way women are treated in porno videos on various sites. One person got pissed at me because I wasn’t being sex positive. This is a ridicules thing to say if you ask me.
The way this person was talking and interpreting that set of words was extreme. From what this person said that would mean that if I was a pedophile and started talking about how great it is to fuck kids, that everyone should accept it with open arms. What if I was into necrophilia and wrote about fucking dead people, are all the people on this site going to accept that as a good thing?
The answer is hopefully FUCK NO. If you think that being sex positive means that you don’t say anything negative about any type of sexual thing. Then I hope you never become reporters because you’ll probably be fucked before you start. I am not going to censor myself because what I hate doesn’t give a positive view on certain things. The biggest and most honest thing I can say is regardless as to what I say I like or hate, is I don’t give a shit what you do as long as it doesn’t fuck up someone else.
If you want to know an example of what I am talking about then watch the documentary “Deliver us from Evil”. It is about child sex abuse in the Catholic Church. If you watch this sick fucker talk about how he would get kids in a position of trust so he could have his way with them and then you see how it affected, not just the kids that he abused, but the families of those kids and how betrayed they felt. One father by the end of the film denounces the church which makes his daughter break down in tears. It’s really interesting to me that she kept going to church even after that happened. But here is a guy that fucked up so many lives and he just doesn’t really care about those people. It’s more like a sick way of reliving the shit he did to them.
There are certain people that I think should simply be executed because to keep them alive means they will do more damage than anything else. These are pedophiles, rapists, and serial killers. I am talking about people who have an obvious proclivity towards destruction of others for personal pleasure. When you get beyond defensive mode because you think I am attacking you. You will see I really just don’t care. If you have a bunch of tattoos and I’m looking at you. It’s not because I think you’re nuts. It’s because I am curious as to what you have a tattoo of. Just like anyone else when I see certain things I might laugh, like a person with a green punk rocker mohawk, an anarchy emblem on their pants, and a hippie tee shirt.
Hell I go to WalMart and see this old lady working as a greeter wearing cat ears on her head I wonder why someone her age is doing that because it’s not often you see it. It’s doesn’t mean I think she needs special help. It’s something that makes her unique. Honestly I need people like that because I probably wouldn’t laugh nearly as much as I need to without them.
I am honest and I do have issues with being negative and perhaps someday I will tell why. The short is I have dealt with a lot of shit from a lot of assholes. I use comedy to express that instead of going out and picking fights. I will continue to give my opinion on things I read and see. I am not always going to have a positive thing to say and I will not let that stop me from voicing my opinion.
A sex positive community as I understand it is being able to give your opinion while being respectful of others. I will not say that I think that things on here are evil and you shouldn’t do them at all. If I think it is needed I will give a warning do to my understanding of those things. Like if you’re into bestiality I will tell you to use common sense and do not fuck porcupines. If you think I am uninformed about something how ever feel free to inform me instead of being stupid and calling me names. I know there are plenty of things I have not experienced and various things I do not want to try. But that does not mean I will not read what you say. I am always willing to read what people say. Just keep in mind I am not always going to respond to what you say or I may just joke around about it. That does not mean I did not accept what you said. That’s just my way of having a little fun.




Jessica Elizabeth
For me sex positivity can be easily wrapped up in the phrase “Your kink is not my kink but your kink is okay too.” It’s recognizing that we all are unique and have our own quirks and likes and dislikes. It’s realizing that so long as everything is consensual and no one is being harmed it’s all good!
I remember that post you speak of; you don’t like anal sex. *shrugs* For the most part I don’t like lesbian porn. Oh well and life goes on! ^^