There are several of us who have fallen in love with EdenFantasys. I know I’ve fallen completely head over heels for it. I’ve been a member of several online communities, but not a single one comes close to what Eden has done for me. It’s strange to admit that I feel like I owe a lot to a website, but with Eden, I feel I really do. It has not only impacted my sex life, but several aspects of my personal and professional life.

Up until I stumbled across this wonderful website, I was convinced that I had a pretty low sex drive, and that sex was something I could live without. I felt like a sexual person, but never really felt the desire to partake in any sexual activities. Sometimes I felt like I put more energy into avoiding it than I did actually doing it. It’s was never anything I was particularly okay with, but I accepted it and learned to live with it.

Things started to change when I accepted a job at an adult novelty store. I thought it would be a great opportunity for me to see what was out there, and that I would be able to own a couple more things which would spark my desire back up. A couple weeks after I started, I began doing research on some of the toys we carried, but I never found much information on how well they actually worked. One of my searches brought me to Edenfantasys. I remember being amazed at the incredible amount of information this website had compared to all of the others out there. I decided to search for another toy. The points box popped up, and I was hooked. I made an account and promptly wrote a review on the toy I had and loved that had just bit the dust. The more I learned about Eden, the more hooked I was. Not only would this help me spark up my desire, but it would also help me learn about all of the toys I sell to customers on a daily basis. It was a win-win situation, overall.

It’s been a little over three months since I first joined, and I’m still just as excited as I was when I first discovered the site, if not more. I have gone from a complete newbie, to one of the top contributing members of the community. I’ve written over 80 reviews, had several pieces of writing published on EdenCafe, been featured in the Weekly Roundup and Rumble, and I’m now club manager for the Eden Arts and Crafts Club. I’ve learned way more than I ever thought there was to know about sex toys, and I pass this knowledge on to customers. The thing I appreciate most is the incredibly fulfilling sex life I can thank Edenfantasys for.

Of course everyone appreciates free sex toys. As someone on a highly limited budget, I know I do. I never in my life thought I’d have such a massive collection that continues to grow by the week. Prior to Eden, I had only owned two toys in my entire life. One was a traditional vibrator, and the other was a rabbit vibrator. Now, I have quite the collection of all types of toys. My favorite part about the free toys is sitting down to write the review. I’ve always considered myself to be a good writer. I’m in college at the moment, so I do have to do quite a bit of writing for that, but I feel like Eden challenges me much more than my classes do. I really appreciate the mental workout I get, and the stress of writing the most useful review I can about a product whether I like it or not. How do you best describe the feeling of a lube? How do you write a substantial review on a pair of stockings?

The opportunity to write for EdenCafe is also extremely exhilarating, because I’m completely on my own when it comes to what I write. When I finally have something published and commented on, I feel incredibly accomplished. Because of these constant challenges and the amount of writing I find myself doing, the overall writing process outside the site has become much easier for me.

Another thing I’m incredibly thankful for is the respectful, supportive, and helpful community. No matter what question or concern I have, I know that the members will be there to help me out. I can ask really personal questions on the forum that I couldn’t ask anywhere else. I’ve turned to the community for support when I’ve had serious issues going on in my life. We talk about things that most people could never talk to their friends or family about. I feel a lot less alone in some of the things I’ve experienced or like. The conversations going on have even opened my mind to trying things I never thought I’d ever do. In the end, I know I can come back to the community and find all of the advice and support I couldn’t get elsewhere. I’ve never run across such a diverse community that made me feel at home as soon as I jumped in. It also means a great deal to me when other members approach me with questions about anything at all, and trust my advice. These wonderful people have also made me feel incredibly appreciated and valued.

The knowledge that I’ve gained through my experience with the site has also helped my professional and personal life a great deal. My boss has a great deal of respect for my knowledge. My customers often tell me how thankful they are for how helpful I am, and that they’ve never been in a store like this, where someone catered to them and answered all of their questions. I’ve gone from working a handful of hours a week, to being here full time. I’m trusted to order new products for the store, and have been told that if the manager steps down, he’ll hand the store over to me. This is the first time I’ve ever been professionally recognized for my knowledge and allowed to take on greater responsibilities because of it. After years of working unpleasant jobs just to make ends meet, I finally have a job I absolutely love that fits my skills and interests. Because of what I do at my job, I’ve decided to continue my education down a human sexuality route, so that I can always do something I love.

This has also made my sex life much more satisfying than I ever thought possible. I no longer feel like I’m doomed to always have little to no desire. The toys, the community, and my knowledge have all made me feel like a much more sexually confident person. I’m not afraid to try things I haven’t ever done, or to experiment with new techniques. I’ve tried toys I never thought I ever would, and I feel like I have well-rounded experience because of doing so. I’m much more in touch with my sexuality, and realize that the problem I thought I was cursed with has been completely reversed, which does a lot for my self-esteem. I know a lot more about pleasing myself, and pleasing others, because of my wonderful experience on Eden.

Honestly, I don’t know where I’d be if I hadn’t discovered this amazing website. It’s done more for me than I could have ever imagined. It’s touched just about every part of my life, and turned it around for the better. I swear that something related to Eden makes my day, every single day. I want to take this opportunity to thank everyone who helps make Edenfantasys the amazing place it is. That includes the owner, the staff, the community members, manufacturers, and you, because you’re reading this. Thank you for being part of something that has brought me so much happiness and personal growth, and has changed my life for the better. You all certainly deserve it.