I have been pretty successful in my fuck friends. I am pretty strict with my own rules, and stick to them. First of all, there are three levels of fuck friends with me.

Level One – Fuck Dates

Fuck Dates are like one-night stands, but multiple nights. There isn’t much to these relationships, just fucking. Sure, you know their name, address, and their stats of their last STD test, but not much else. These can either be fleeting, or progress to further levels of fuck friends. But it doesn’t really matter either way. My rules are pretty simple for this level: must be STD/STI-free, kink-friendly, no anal performed on me, and must wear condoms. These people usually last an average of three fuck dates, before one party either ends it, or it progresses up a level.

Level Two – Fuck Buddies

These people know a bit more about me, and I know a bit more about them. The focus of our relationship is on the sex, but you can casually hang out, before or after, without any awkward situations. You wouldn’t hang out with this person unless sex was involved, or at least a high probability of sex happening. The rules are mostly the same for this level, except anal is a possibility. These people can hang at this level for a while. I’ve had one guy at this level for years (on and off again).

Level Three – Friends with Benefits

These are actual friends; people who you text without references to time and place for your next hook up. These are people who you can hang out with, without the need for fucking. The sex is just another great part of your friendship. These can be gotten two ways – progression through the levels, or a friendship first that turns sexual. The rules are the same here as they are for fuck buddies.

So, what is the one rule I haven’t mentioned? The feelings rule.

I am very strict about feelings being developed in my fuck friends relationships. It is a no go. I think that sexual chemistry can often be misconstrued; it can make a person think that an actual relationship can be made out of it. So I always tell fuck friends, that when one person starts to develop feelings then it must be told to the other person. It can either be discussed, or the fuck friendship is terminated. I don’t believe in continuing with a fuck friend when feelings are involved, I think it is unfair. I’ve had people develop feelings for me, and I’ve developed feelings for another person in fuck friendships – I’ve been able to step back and follow my rules each time. I think it is very important to stick to the rules that are put in place.