I have always been fascinated by the sex industry. I’ve always wanted to know more. I won’t admit that to many people, I am too shy to talk about it. But ask my husband – and he will tell you that you should come to me with any question you have. I feel as if I have two personalities – there is the “me” that my family and some friends know, then there is the “me” that is into everything sex – learning, positions, porn, toys, everything. But not many people know the latter me. I may talk about some things with my friends, but none of them know the full extent. I feel like I hide that part of me from most people, my husband being the one true person who knows how into sex, and its education, that I am. (I constantly wonder if I should be in school for Sex Education rather than Accounting!)

I shopped online for my sex toys from a company that is local to me. I would often go to the store to make purchases, and even applied for a job there (they didn’t hire me). But I had no idea that a world such as EdenFantasys existed; such an open, sex positive, sex friendly community where no one is discriminated against, where no one is considered an outcast.

I have a blog, and am regularly looking for opportunities to review or make money from my blog. I received this email saying that an adult site was looking for people to write a post on their blog, and in return they will get a gift card to the website. I checked out the site, and thought, “Ooh, free toys for a post! I’m in!” So I sent the email to the contact person, Jenn. She replied back and explained further. She let me know that I should provide a few links back to the site, and in return, she would give me a gift card for the website. Additionally, if I put a banner up I would get a little more. I wrote my post for Valentines Day, to try to give people an idea for something different this year, like some massage oils, body paints, etc. Nothing too raunchy, as my blog isn’t quite set for that demographic. I completed the post shortly after (I believe within a day). I think it probably had more than was actually needed – I saw someone else with a similar post, and realized that I had way more posted than they did.

I created my account on EF, and to my surprise was already set up as an affiliate (part of my purchase was commissioned! So I can spend that at a later date!). I was so eager to learn, and I found out that I could become a reviewer. My eyes lit up! I have wondered how people go about becoming a reviewer of these products, and I just found a way! I told my husband. He was excited. He said, “Finally, something that I can enjoy you doing!” Along the way, I noticed that I was earning points. So, of course, I had to check it out to see what it was about. I found out that those were there for me to accumulate and trade in for a gift card! Are you kidding me!? So, I get rewarded for learning more, being active in this awesome community, shopping, reviewing products, and being myself!? I don’t think there is another site/community that offers this much to its people.

I have only been a member of the EF community since the beginning of February, and already I have learned a lot. I love the forum and community corner; there is so much to be learned from the other members, many of who are in a different lifestyle than myself. Everyone is welcomed with open arms here; everyone is polite, friendly, and non-discriminating. No one is considered an outcast – not because of lifestyle choice, or because of their race, gender, etc. You can remain as anonymous as you wish, or be as public as you like about yourself and what you’re into.

I probably spend at least 2 hours on the site every day; looking for new products that I would like to try, exploring the forums and learning about other lifestyles, reading other peoples reviews on products, and meeting great people.

The thing that I want to learn most from EdenFantasys and its community is Kink. I want to know what all there is out there, explore my options, and see what all I am into. I want to find my sexuality. I think Eden is the perfect place to do that.