I’m annoyed. Lately, just about every woman I’ve met who SAYS she is polyamorous or in an open relationship then qualifies it to mean that she has a boyfriend and they are both allowed to be with women, as long as he is present. And no boys allowed.
POLY MY ASS!!!
That, my friends, is OBS – Opportunistic Boyfriend Syndrome; dudes who take advantage of their awesome, open-minded girlfriends.
I had a series of relationships like this – the guys I was with were all down with fucking my girlfriends and having male-female-female threesomes and me allowing their wildest fantasies to come true, but the double standard kicked in as soon as I’d express interest in fucking one of their male friends. I dunno, seems selfish and one-sided to me.
Finally I got so fed up with this hypocrisy that I swore off committing to any man, since apparently no person with balls could handle my wildest fantasies. Nope. Just his.
And then as if by some divine (yet complicated) intervention, I met Beast, who didn’t know a thing about polyamory before he met me, yet can find it within himself to be supportive and understanding of my deepest, darkest desires. What’s more, he gets off on me being happy. AND he makes me suck his friends dicks.
YESSSS Dreams do cum true!!!!
So what do you make of all this? Do you share my frustration? If you’re poly, what are your “rules”?