Memoirs of an Intimacy-aholic
What is Intimacy? Is it a transcendental feeling akin to love? Can it be found in an action, like holding hands? Will you find it in candle lit rooms, or in the voice of Barry Manilow?
read moreThree Types of Guys that Always Kill the Mood
The mood killer, you know the one, the one you were getting busy with until he did something stupid to kill the mood and ruin your chances of having a pleasure filled night!
read moreI’m a One Love Slut
Sluts are women who enjoy sex too much for society to feel comfortable with. I know this, because I am a slut. I’ve only slept with one man in my entire life, but still, I am a slut. I enjoyed sex, and I wasn’t ashamed. In fact, I did something unacceptable, I not only enjoyed it, I went back for more. This might seem like a...
read moreHe Dreams of Strap-ons . . . and That’s Okay
Early on in our relationship, my boyfriend and I decided to have the sexual fantasy talk – an important discussion for any couple.
read moreBecause He Asked Me To…
I am laying here in bed... waiting for a lover to show up. But not just waiting for him to come over and touch my body then fuck me, but do so while my husband knows.
read moreSex Doesn’t Need to Begin and End with V
There are people out there who can’t or won’t have penis in vagina intercourse, and sometimes the people who do have it simply want a change
read moreI Feel Pretty … Oh, So Pretty!
You see it in commercials for feminine products of all shapes and sizes. A woman with long flowing hair and clothes--usually a twirly skirt--and limbs spin under godrays on some sort of wall.
read moreVirginity Lost? Check
This is it! I am finally going to lose my virginity. That was the only thought in my mind as Damion lay me down on the bed and lowered himself on top of me. My heart raced, and my head started to spin ever so slightly. Growing up, I was teased a lot because of my weight. People told me I wouldn’t ever lose my virginity because...
read moreChildhood Hypersexuality: For Mom
Nov 30
Posted by stainedclear in Personal Thoughts and Sharing, Sex and Parenting, Sex and Sexuality
Parenting is difficult. Even if you don’t have kids, a trip to the grocery store, and a look around at all the parents tugging screaming children away from the toy aisles should tell you that it’s no cake walk. A normal child will wear you down, but a child with an illness or disability will turn you grey before you know it....
read moreThe Elusive O
Ladies and gentlemen, let’s talk about orgasms. No, not the guys’ orgasms—the women’s. I mean, while nature made it terribly unfair to men that women can have multiple orgasms, often with very little rest required—and men have that fucking refractory period that can be hours upon hours long, especially as we get...
read moreGet Your Tickets Here
I still remember the first time I had sex. My then boyfriend and I had spent months convincing our fathers to take us to a concert. He lived around six hours away, so when they finally said yes, it was amazing.
read moreStrip Cribbage
When I was young, my first sexual experiences were ALWAYS with older men. Whether it be five, or twenty five years older, it always carried the theme of, 'I am being taken for a ride'.
read moreIt’s real. Let’s talk about it.
This isn’t an easy subject for anyone, but it’s a real condition that parents and children deal with every day. Our hope in publishing this article is to help readers dealing with a situation like this one find their way. We hope you will read these words and know you are not alone. And maybe you’ll...
read moreAll Hail the Clitoris
So ladies, what do you like? Do you like it rubbed, pressed, suckled, kissed, blown on, or bitten? Or are you one of the women who can’t stand to have it touched at all? I’m talking about the female clitoris, of course, and we all like it different ways. Unfortunately, our partners (especially men) don’t always know which way...
read moreStrong Hands
Now I’m working at what is required to take care of me. This journey has taken me straight to the bedroom. It has been filled with joys I’ve never imagined, and a few brick walls that will probably never come down. But it’s been an adventure for the most part, that I have greatly enjoyed.
read moreLosing My Virginity …
I can look back at everything surrounding losing my virginity and can honestly say that I do not regret it. I prefer to say that I didn't lose anything, I know right where I left it, and I found something more.
read moreLosing My Overripe Cherry
Yes, my first full-fledged lover is also my current wife. You can make fun about how old-fashioned that is, if you like.
read moreMorning Sex Rocks
A few months ago, we found a kitten on the side of the road. He was skin and bones and scruffy. Tall and long for his age. Hardly had a tooth to speak of in his mouth. We were barely scraping by feeding ourselves and the animals we had but he let me pick him up. I at least wanted to bring him home, give him a meal and then get him...
read moreInterracial Love
550,000 couples in America are interracial couples. You’d think today in 2011 that it would be more common, or at least not so much cared about. I thought that it would have been also, but I learned later that it wasn’t. I met my boyfriend in my early teens (2004), and we’ve been together ever since. We weren’t actually...
read moreAnal Sex Play Etiquette
Anal Sex – Something that is talked about often when it comes to sexual play, but also something that is shunned by many due to fear and confusion. People often wonder whether anal sex is safe, and if it is, how to go about trying it for the first time. Here is my list of advice on proper anal sex, and how to practice this special...
read moreConquering the Male G-Spot Fear
As a male growing up in the Internet generation, I’m often exposed to surprising, sometimes startling, information. For example, did you know that some blue whales have veins large enough for an individual to swim through? Regardless, some of this information sticks with me, gnawing at my mind for days, until I finally break...
read moreFisting 102: Now Get In There!
Click here for Fisting 101 In part one of this series, I looked at some of the myths surrounding fisting that have scared people away from the practice. In this installment, I will walk you through how to actually attempt this epic sex act! SOME CONSIDERATIONS BEFORE YOU START: There are many factors that can make fisting physically...
read moreWe’re In it For the Long Haul
The Hubby and I have been married for over six years now, together for eight and a half. I love him dearly, but marriage isn’t always easy. It’s definitely something we have to work at. Our physical relationship is no different. I’m not saying that, even though I call it work, it’s something I hate. I don’t always enjoy...
read moreFisting 101
(Note: this article is about vaginal fisting only. If you are interested in anal fisting, I recommend doing some additional research such as picking up Dr. Jack Morin’s book “Anal Pleasure and Health: A Guide for Men, Women and Couples” prior to attempting it, as it is a more advanced and potentially dangerous [if done...
read moreMissionary, Anyone?
“Sex has been called the original sin, but there is nothing original about it, nor is it sinful.”~ Osho More often than not, I prefer what is called, the Missionary position. A terribly unsexy name, I must admit. It conjures up visions of Missionaries, and I’m not sure if they have a sensual connotation for you, but it’s not...
read moreSlutWalk LA: An Experience to Remember
As part of a partnering organization, my relationship with SlutWalk is slightly different than the average participant. I was there representing Sex Workers Outreach Project – Los Angeles (SWOP-LA), and running our table through both the rally and the walk. I went into SlutWalk extremely ambivalent. I had read numerous critiques...
read moreMy Time On the Edge
My first experience with ass to mouth sex was a huge surprise. I was playing around with someone, and I said something to the effect of, “kiss my ass” as a way to disagree with something he said, and he rolled me over, pinned me down and started kissing my ass. It moved to rimming, and while I was hesitant at once – hell...
read moreExhibitionism, Etc.
I am an exhibitionist. I’m sure I’ve said that before. It’s what drove me to begin writing about my sexcapades on the Internet and is what ultimately drew me to Internet Gor. I’m a writer, you see, and roleplaying on the Internet is an awesome exercise in one’s descriptive capabilities. And the perfect...
read moreWhat to Expect at a Strip Club
Going to your first strip club can be an exciting and scary experience. Believe me, I know – I just went to my first strip club yesterday. I loaded my boyfriend and sister (which, by the way, taking your sister to a strip club is a very awkward venture, and you may choose to forgo this step when you take your own adventure) into...
read moreTwo Sides to Every Story
I am a total Gemini. There are two very different sides to me, and most people in my life only get to see one. As a matter of fact, I would venture to say that no one really knows both sides of me fully (with the possible exception of my best friend; she knows quite a bit about the “hidden” side of me, but there are...
read moreMy Foray in Phone Sex
What does it take to be a phone sex operator? Recently I found myself delving into this question. My interest was sparked by a Carlin Ross podcast in which she shared some stories of clients she’d had when she was working as a phone sex operator herself. The tales ranged from hilarious and entertaining, to sexy, to dark and...
read moreSlut Shaming
I have been what some would call a slut my whole life. It used to bother me: that I lost count somewhere, that the guys I am with haven’t had as many partners as me, or that it might come up in polite conversation. It started when I was just a kid. Like so many women out there, I was molested by a family member. Then I was...
read moreMy Sexual Evolution
When I was younger, I always thought the sex I was having was like all sex, and like sex would always be: boring. I never knew that sex can really get better as you get older, or when you’re with a partner you’re truly comfortable with. Hopefully with the years to come it will get even better than it is now! I was always...
read moreI Heart Sluts
With the recent controversy surrounding the Slutwalk marches, there has been a lot of talk about the word – “slut”. We all know what it means, the connotations of a woman who enjoys sex, who has a lot of sex, who might even have a lot of sex with a lot of different people…. and who doesn’t even get paid for...
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The Prizes 1st Prize: A Bsoft or Bcurious + a Bnaughty + a Bwarm! 2nd Prize: A Bsoft or Bcurious! 3rd Prize: A $25 EdenFantasys Gift Card! The Winners 1st Prize: Robyn Lucas! 2nd Prize: Mark/Charm City! 3rd Prize: pixieluv! Congrats, guys! Don’t forget to email me your shipping info so I can get those prizes out to...
read moreAfter Sex Survival Guide
For those couples that don’t know what to do with themselves after sex, have no fear. I have put together an ‘After Sex Survival Guide’ to help you through. Just as some people can’t find common ground with another person unless they are inebriated, some couples find they have most in common in the bedroom...
read moreVirginity is in the Eye of the Beholder
I am a virgin. What does it mean when I say that? Does it mean nothing, because I am a man, devoid of a hymen to prove my virginity? Does it mean I have never inserted my penis into a woman’s vagina? Am I a virgin because I have never had penetrative intercourse? Maybe I am a virgin, due to a complete lack of sexual...
read moreSex Culture: Two Steps Forward, Three Steps Back
As some of you know, I write about sex news for the Sex Feed on Sex Is. Which means I spend at least a couple hours a day up to my eyeballs in news about something loosely or wholly pertaining to sex. The good, the bad and the horrifically painful. I get to watch from the front lines as this battle for the right to a...
read moreConsent
In BDSM and kink communities, we talk consent all the time. It’s a vital part of negotiation and respect; consent is the lynchpin which defines sex as a participant’s choice and not an act of abuse. So why doesn’t everyone talk about consent, even when they’re not playing with dominance or paddles? I wish I had an answer....
read moreConfessions of a Toy Collector 2
I recently wrote a short article sharing the beginnings of my journey as a toy collector. This is the second installment. It has become increasingly interesting, to say the least. Yes, the mailman is still looking at me like I am the uni-bomber, as he delivers two to three packages a week. Especially because I seem to be...
read moreA Slump, Book, and Journey of Anal Sex
I never pictured myself as an ‘anal’ kind of girl. I always had misconceptions about it. I thought it was dirty and something that would be terribly painful. I can remember back when I thought it was disgusting and anytime the old man asked me to, my direct and immediate answer was always no. It wasn’t until a few years back...
read moreMy Third Sexual Assault
You know I have been, as my close friends calls it, sexually assaulted a few times already, and I am only 21. I lived in a not so good area for my teenage years. I am pretty much over those encounters except for one on them, the last one. That last encounter really just made me wonder…what is wrong with men? At the time...
read moreVanilla Interests
I’ve been kinky for a long time. I’ve been in a couple of long term kink relationships, and way more kink scenes than I can even count. I’m solidly kinky and have had the bruises to prove it. So when I recently broke up with my boyfriend (who I had a 24/7 TPE relationship with) I didn’t really even think about vanilla...
read moreThe Good Wife’s Guide
A while back, there was an image circulating the web called “The Good Wife’s Guide”. I can’t remember where I first ran into it. But I remember there was quite the uproar over the guide around the blogosphere. The feminist bloggers were vehemently opposed. The submissive women cheered. Men on either side of...
read moreWhen Who I Was is No More
I guess to really give you the full story, I should start at the beginning. The problem is, I don’t know exactly where that beginning starts. Does it start with the childhood of emotional abuse, and how difficult it has always been to see the value in myself? Does it start with the sexual assaults that riddled my adolescence...
read moreHow to Deal with a Sexless Marriage
Sexual compatibility is crucial in any relationship. But what happens after years of marriage and the comfort zone settles in? Main questions going through your mind may include: has he or she stopped loving me? What did I do wrong? And the main question is, do I seek release elsewhere? When dealing with a sexless marriage...
read moreFuck Friends
I have been pretty successful in my fuck friends. I am pretty strict with my own rules, and stick to them. First of all, there are three levels of fuck friends with me. Level One – Fuck Dates Fuck Dates are like one-night stands, but multiple nights. There isn’t much to these relationships, just fucking. Sure, you know...
read moreApproaching Kink With a New Lover
When I first started dating it was hard enough to deal with the whole girl on girl thing. Throwing kinky sex into the mix was just too much for two girls in their first relationship. Fast forward six years into our relationship, and my interest in kink turned into a profound porn obsession, along with emails to people on kink...
read moreGetting Freaky in Public Places
I’m a newcomer to the idea of sex in public places. But I have to say, I’m quickly getting the hang of it. I should probably point out that neither my boyfriend nor I are exhibitionists at all. (As a matter of fact, his nerves get the better of him when he thinks someone might see us, and I have to help him get hard...
read moreMultiple O
Oh, Oh, Oh, Ooooooo… I’m talking about the holy grail for women, and possibly men… Multiple Orgasms. Multiple Orgasms are orgasms that happen rapidly, one right after another, sometimes seconds apart. Despite popular belief woman aren’t the only one who can do this either. Men can have multiples as well, although...
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