I often sit and shake my head at some of the things that get sent to me in my FetLife inbox. Dominates (yes I wrote Dominates) who want me to show them their ‘proper due’. Read attend to their every whim and want with absolute adoration while I am chained and naked, oh and soaking wet and wanting sex sex sex for no reason other...
read moreForever. Together Forever. Best Friends Forever. The concept of being with someone or loving someone forever. Essentially having an unconditional attachment to one person, or possibly a multitude of people if that’s what you’re dealing with. It’s promised to us at a young age in the guise of true love, something that many...
read moreI had all these smart ass lines I was going to start this post with. But I realized that attitude (and maybe the one I exhibited in my last post … What? I’m comfortable admitting that maybe I was a little more snarky than I needed to be. Are you?) isn’t really conducive to opening the lines of communication. And...
read moreThat man of mine has an incredible knack for getting himself involved in pissing matches with silly people who get all up in arms about things that really just don’t matter. The type of folks who will twist your words to fit their agenda whichever way works out best for them. This week, though, really takes the cake. Let me...
read moreSomething has really been on my mind since yesterday. I went fishing with a friend of mine yesterday afternoon. Just two women having fun fishing and laying out, while getting away from the real world for a little while. We spent a few hours just escaping from the hassles of day to day life, being wives, mothers, maids and such. On...
read moreYesterday I heard a story about a girl (we’ll call her S for short, because she is a total sweetheart). S was in a loving and committed, monogamous, long term relationship, or so she thought. It turns out that her partner was a total douchebag (in fact, we’ll call him D for douchebag from here on out). D spent his free...
read moreAfter being bombarded by numerous diet commercials, I have decided to introduce the one and only guaranteed way to lose all the weight you possibly can. Best thing of all is there are no side effects from this diet. How is this possible? Because once you’re dead there are no more effects to worry about. People all over the...
read moreI’m just gonna put this out there. Life’s far too short, with too few magnificent opportunities, to be so insanely obsessed with never “settling”. I know… I know. The feminist propaganda, and self-help books, and Dr. Phil all say differently. “Take what you want!” they say. “Seize the...
read morePeople who dine and dash are so rude on so many different levels. There’s the obvious factor of, “ok, you came into a restaurant, ordered food, interacted with the waiter, and are now ripping off both the waiter and the restaurant.” I understand that not all waiters are all that great, but there are a lot of them that...
read moreI am a member of the LGBT community. That B? That stands for me. I’m not overly active. I haven’t had a girlfriend since… Hmm… Do internet romances count? If not, my last girlfriend was at least ten years ago. I didn’t march on Washington (though I wanted to), or visit City Hall with another woman to...
read moreOn February 16, 2004, Colorado forward Scott Moore laid a hit on the then leading point scorer Markus Näslund of the Vancouver Canucks. The hit was to the head, and would knock the Canucks player out for three games with a minor concussion and a chip in his elbow. While the hit was not penalized, many found it to be a dirty hit,...
read moreAs a woman who has been married for close to a decade, I am consistently asked how we keep the marriage alive. “Simple,” I say “we learn how not kill one another.” I am joking. Kind of. There comes a point in a marriage where two people either learn each other, or they opt out of the vows they took. It isn’t an easy...
read moreWhen I’m not at work or in class for my law degree, I spend a lot of my time in my apartment. Most of that time is spent either on the computer or in bed watching television. I know, I’m ridiculously lazy. There’s few legal shows I can get into watching any more, thanks to the ridiculousness that is legal show...
read moreIt’s no fun to be cheated on. Especially if you only found out after your relationship was over. I did regain power in our relationship in the end, though. This is my story. My ex, let’s call him Sean, had cheated on a previous girlfriend, and I knew this going into our relationship. We’d discussed what had led up to him...
read moreI don’t think it’s coincidental that abbreviating Valentine’s Day leaves you with VD. In fact, Valentine’s Day and STDs have a lot in common. Think about it. Both require you to dish out money so they’ll disappear, both are nasty, and both leave you feeling depressed and ashamed. Ok fine, maybe I’m being...
read moreAlright folks. Here is the deal. I work retail. I love it. I really do. I love (most) of the people I work with; my boss is amazing, and the store is full of wonderful, pretty things that I long to take home. Despite what most think, the customers are not that bad. I would say 9 out of every 10 customers are great. They are...
read moreI came to a startling realization today about why so many of us are unhappy. Expectations. Oh, sure, there are a gazillion other reasons – illness, debt, seasonal affective disorder, that-time-of-the-month, and lack of coffee being some prime examples. But you know what? There are loads of us who are making ourselves, and other...
read moreTechnology and I are friends. We are. Unfortunately, we’re also on really rough terms lately. It seems that, with the introduction and assimilation of technology into our culture, the manners and etiquette that I’d expect from people is just going farther and farther away. If you ask my mother, it’s just the new...
read moreEvery once in a while, M does something that’s really just not fair. Like purchase his own vice and refuse, though we have the money, to purchase mine. And mine’s cheaper! I’ve never been particularly spoiled. No more than any other daddy’s-girl-turned-rebel, anyway. I mean, I got my way, a lot, with just...
read moreWhat is morality? Do you really know what it is? I think there is a fine line between what it is and what people manipulate it to be. I have to admit first hand, I am one of those internet junkies that sits at her laptop for hours a day. I read drama, reviews, blogs, more drama, and the occasional educational piece. I lather myself...
read moreAfter one of my first blog/articles called “Things I love and hate about porn” I got some heat which made me laugh because I said I don’t like anal sex. It was funny as hell to me that people were getting so pissed at that when most of the article was about my hate for the way women are treated in porno videos on various...
read moreI dunno why I always jump on the bandwagon of babble these days. I’m also not entirely sure why I always do it long after most people have stopped babbling about it. But what confuses me most is my penchant for writing about things that make no sense to me. This topic confuses the shit out of me. Why? Because I’ve...
read moreI have been buying products from Eden Fantasys for about five years now. Never have I had a problem with the company. I discovered last year that I could review products for their company. The best part? Anyone can do it. They don’t discriminate in any way whatsoever. The only thing needed- a community to vote you in. Not too hard...
read moreI sometimes hate my libido. It fucks up every relationship I’ve been in. It messes up even the casual friends with benefits flings I have. It screws me over. You see, I have a high sex drive. When guys hear this they laugh, they puff out their chest and assure me that they can keep up with me. They tell me that they’ll be...
read moreWHAT FEMALE TEENAGERS SHOULD LEARN ABOUT RESPECT How many innocent boys are charged with felonies every year relating to taking underage minors across state lines, rape and sexual assault? A lot, way too many and it is a never ending trend. Many community members may look down on these boys/men and ask them what the hell they were...
read moreI recently graduated from a community college. It took me 5 years to get an associates degree that honestly, I’ll probably never use. But on top of taking a year to pick a major, I also worked 2 jobs the entire time. My mom helped out by paying for some classes and letting me live at home rent free. I had the opportunity to go...
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