An Ex-Beginner’s Diary of Toys: Part 2
In the previous diary episode we learned quite a few things:
read moreSelf Deprivation
Self-deprivation. A word (or two words) that can really conjure a lot of different ideas. Basically it means depriving oneself of something.
read moreHow Edenfantasys Changed My Life
The whole point of me writing this is to say thank you to Edenfantasys and to the community, and to share how you have all impacted my life.
read morePhotograph-friendly Make Up Tips for Your Wedding Day
You've hired a professional photographer for your wedding day so that you will have every moment captured beautifully. Now here are some tips for wedding day makeup that is flash friendly.
read moreYes, I am a Douche Canoe
I? Am a big ol' hypocrite. And I'd be willing to bet money I don't have to lose that most of you are too, at least to an extent.
read moreOur First Toy
I was never the type of guy who thought I would ever use any type of sex toy. That was until I got with my fiancé who opened up a new world for me and her.
read moreRedhead Rumors
There are tons of names for redheads; some mild, some wild! But what has given redhead women this surrounding of fame?
read moreChoosing My Religion
Teenage life is hard, that’s pretty much a given. I wish this was all I had to worry about, but unfortunately, I came from an incredibly religious household -- and I'm an athiest.
read moreProstitution Curiosity
Prostitution is something I’ve always been curious about. I don’t know why. I guess I’ve always wonder why would someone want to be a prostitute.
read moreEmotionally and Mentally Abusive
Emotionally and mentally abusive. That’s a string of words that I thought I would never pair together. However, it took a good friend of mine, and an hour of crying, to realize exactly what was going on.
read moreTouch Without Taboo
Anyone who’s observed me with my lover will tell you, we touch almost constantly. One of our friends has described it as orbiting each other. Our body language when we’re together is almost more animal than human, sometimes. The one thing they may not notice about all that touching is that it isn’t sexual.
read moreExtra Job Searching
A few weeks ago I caught a special on Good Morning America about jobs that moms can do from home while their little ones are growing up. It was the typical “work from home” kind of special that addressed more about the ways that people are using the internet for advertising and promoting their expertise online. But one...
read moreRose is the Other Woman
My name is Rose, and I am the other woman and have been for years now. Not only have I helped someone cheat, I have cheated on partners of my own to be with this person. I have warned guys upon entering a relationship with them that I will sleep with this person given the chance, but they seem to just shrug it off and not believe...
read moreThe Other Woman
I never really wanted this. In fact, I wanted something so different than this that it’s crazy. It seems that neither one of us had a choice in the matter. It just happened, and everything fell into place so naturally that we ended up where we are now. We’re way too far into it to get out unscathed. It’d take a...
read moreChoosing Monogamy
I make no secret of the fact that I've been married for 31 years, and I am a strong believer in marriage. I also believe that anything can be worked through IF both partners are willing to make the marriage work.
read moreRecycling Sex Toys
The new trend is to go “Green”. We’ve all heard the term, and some even have vowed to “Go Green!” But is recycling used dildos going too far? Could you recycle your used sex toys? I know I thought it sounded pretty weird when I first ran across it. After reading the reasoning behind the idea, I thought it...
read moreHungry: An Internet Adventure
I am a typical broke and starving college student in the United States. The economy is terrible and part-time jobs for high school graduates are rare. I am too lazy to serve fast food, and I doubt I will look good in a hairnet. I took these factors into mind when considering careers. I had heard of “cam girls” from my...
read moreEvolution of a Program
Today I would like to talk about a program I rather love. It is VirtuaGirlHD. The first time I heard of Virtuagirl it had its second version out, or at least I think that’s when I first found out about it. Sometime after that they came out with stripsaver. The latest things have been an HD version and deskbabes. Up until...
read moreI Like to be Hurt. Did Being Bullied Make Me A Masochist?
I like to be hurt, both physically and emotionally. I’m a masochist, so a lot of my sexual needs are tied into pain. But do I like pain?
read moreBringing Work into the Bedroom
An area that I have struggled with is where do I stop being a massage therapist and start being a lover? I am still not completely sure how to integrate these two parts of my life...
read moreThe Other Side of the Veil
Give me this moment to look through my lens and catch that exhaled breath. I'm nothing but the recorder of a delicate in-between moment.
read moreLove, Happiness, Tragedy
On November 19, 2006, Teresa called me from the hospital and said the baby was coming and that she wanted me to be by her side. I made it to the hospital late. By the time I arrived, she was holding our son Daniel. Daniel was born at 21 weeks.
read moreSexual Harrassment in the Work Place
It started at my first job. I was just coming to terms with no longer being in my awkward stages in the looks department. Perhaps I strutted a little more than I did before. Maybe I twirled my hair or giggled a little extra. Maybe I didn’t do anything at all, other than be a female.
read moreThe Dark Ages: Growing Up with No Sex Ed
My sexual knowledge was so limited that I was actually one of those preteens who thought that you could get pregnant from a toilet seat. I always assumed that was the reason why male and female bathrooms were separated.
read moreManaging Depression During the Holidays
I've struggled with cyclical depression for years and have learned some tips that I use now whenever I feel a bout of depression coming on.
read moreSometimes Single is Best
After five years of being with the same person and having two kids with him, I am now officially, at 25 years old, a single mother. Now, I never in my wildest dreams imagined I would one day be this young, have two kids and not married to the person I had them with. I saw myself as being happy and taken care of. Life, unfortunately,...
read moreSlut Shaming, Victim Blaming and Being a Prude
“You’re going to get yourself raped.” Has anyone ever said this to you? If they have, what were you wearing? What was the topic of conversation? If you haven’t, you’re lucky. It’s a painful thing to hear. It doesn’t matter if you’re a slut, a prude, or a virgin; gay, straight, questioning, bisexual, or pansexual. You...
read moreRape Victims Can Survive
It was the summer of 1997, and I was going to be a Freshman in high school in about a month. I had been dating the “coolest” guy in town, his name was Mike. He had shoulder length black hair and the most mesmerizing smile. All the girls wanted him, but I had him! You know that when you’re a teenager, things like that mean...
read morePrevention May (or May Not) Save Your Life
Like nearly every other woman on the planet, I have heard just about every rape prevention strategy out there. I’ve heard them everywhere, from everyone. Things that are aimed at reducing the probability that a woman will be the victim of a sexual assault. Frankly, I always thought they made perfect sense; the ideas suggested...
read moreGirls Like Porn Too
I like a little bit of everything I can think of when it comes to porn, but mostly rough stuff. I’m just into that kind of thing, and nobody would ever really guess it. I like rough sex in real life, and I love to watch a girl get tossed around and face fucked. I love straight and lesbian porn; I love girls and guys, threesomes, roleplaying. You name it, I probably like some of it.
read moreBeing a Self-Proclaimed Slut
I have been called every name in the book. Before I lost my virginity, I was a slut, a ho, a whore. Before I learned how to stand up for myself, I was a bitch, a twat, a cunt
read moreYeah, I Can Squirt. So What?
It seems like someone I know, or barely know, or someone who just happens to blog in the same corner of the Internet as I do is wishing that she could squirt.
read moreLoving My Hot Pink Bush
Eden Café recently ran a great piece about feminism and the problem with things like body policing . I loved this piece because it’s a subject I think and write about a lot. I am a queer-identified feminist, but I often struggle with feeling queer enough, or being told my lifestyle choices aren’t in line with someone’s...
read moreSometimes it Feels Good isn’t Good Enough
Charlie Glickman’s recent post about sex-positivity on his blog got me thinking about an issue he touched on, the reasons people consent. He sought in his post to open up a dialogue, and this is my contribution to that dialogue, not as a feminist, sex-positive or otherwise, but as someone looking at it from a purely psychological...
read moreChildhood Hypersexuality: For Mom
Nov 30
Posted by stainedclear in Personal Thoughts and Sharing, Sex and Parenting, Sex and Sexuality
Parenting is difficult. Even if you don’t have kids, a trip to the grocery store, and a look around at all the parents tugging screaming children away from the toy aisles should tell you that it’s no cake walk. A normal child will wear you down, but a child with an illness or disability will turn you grey before you know it....
read moreOne Simple Question…
I am a toy kind of girl; a no-nonsense, get down to business girl who doesn’t waste any time sending me to that optimum climax. Sometimes I make myself cum more than once in a session. I have sent myself to that point so many times in one session that I cant even pee or wipe or touch it without pleasure-filled pain involved.
read moreOvercoming Shame
Nov 25
Posted by Hot N Sexy TexasMama in Personal Thoughts and Sharing, Sex and Parenting, Sexuality
Looking back now, I probably had four to five orgasms and was close to being done when suddenly my mother stood beside the hammock and dumped me out of it. "You horrible girl" she yelled at me as she dragged me back to the house. "I've told you not to do that. Its bad, and you're a bad girl."
read moreViktor and the Psychic
I left with the same semi-skeptical belief I had when I first arrived, although it was an experience, and she did give some pretty good advice, in fact the session felt more like what I would imagine therapy would be like. I will not forget the session, I left with lots of good information, including returning to college for a new career possibility.
read moreMaiden Atlanta
I define sexual intercourse as any sexual interaction between two or more partners. Oral sex, anal sex, mutual masturbation, and penis-in-vagina intercourse, therefore all qualify as ways to pop one’s cherry to me.
read moreRace and Stereotype
I’ve always wondered how many people were ashamed of their own race? I have to admit there are times when I can say that I’m ashamed of being black. Am I wrong? Should I be proud of my race? I agree, yes, I should be proud of my race, but in 2011 it’s extremely hard to be. With today’s music, movies, and T.V, I can see how...
read moreYaoi Rape and Unhealthy Sexual Ideals
Over the past few months, I’ve noticed a correlation between something I occasionally indulge in and a mindset that I cannot condone. That is, I’ve noticed a disturbing number of people who seem to believe they can base their sex-lives and relationships on the– frankly unhealthy– model presented in yaoi manga and...
read moreBeing the Responsible One
I am not a fan of rape. I am not a defender of rape. I don’t think men are entitled to take what they want just because they can. I know that sexual assault is a prevalent crime that can be harrowing even if no actual violence is visited upon the victim. After all, the threat of violence (whether actively voiced or implied)...
read moreWhat is a Slut?
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read moreLosing My Overripe Cherry
Yes, my first full-fledged lover is also my current wife. You can make fun about how old-fashioned that is, if you like.
read more(Not) Holding Out for a Hero
You see, my boyfriend tried very hard to be understanding after my assault. He bought books, he joined websites specializing in partners of sexual assault survivors. He was ready and willing to make whatever sacrifices he had to make in order to make me feel comfortable. He stressed, over and over again, that he didn’t care how long it took me to get back to “normal” – he would be patient, and support me for however long it took.
read moreRape Prevention in Real Situations
I thought the best thing I could do is to look at real life cases of “almost” rape, experienced by close friends and acquaintances. I want to share how they ended up in a dangerous situation, and what they did to be able to survive and prevent a potential rape. I admit that my advice would be faulty as well, but since they are in the context of real situations, we might be able to see how preventing a rape might work in real life.
read moreYou Can’t Have My Feminist Card
I’ve come to a pretty startling realization recently. I’ve realized that, when it comes to feminism, there seems to be some arbitrary list of requirements that a woman has to meet before she can be considered a “good” feminist. And the problem with that – in my eyes anyway, and certainly in my own experience – is that...
read moreResponsibility and Blame
When I go out into the community to educate people and raise awareness about the issue of sexual assault, I often encourage people to try and make responsible decisions. I encourage young adults to stay together when going out on the town. I encourage young women and men alike that it is important that they clearly communicate their personal boundaries to their friends, so that they can recognize dangerous situations and help each other.
read moreAn Ounce of Rape Prevention …
I'm going to start this post out by saying that this is entirely my opinion, and the way I process things in my head. I am never going to blame a rape victim for being raped, because that is a horrible event that no person should ever have to experience.
read moreThe Girl with Many Lovers
Quick! How many people have you slept with? One? Ten? Twenty? More than that? How do you feel about that? Do you wish it was more? Less? Chances are, you’re going to fall somewhere between one and twenty. The average lifetime number of sexual partners of men and women is usually less than ten. Are you average? Above it? The number...
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