There can be a fine line sometimes between kink and dysfunction—that area when you risk that a fetish or other alternative sexual activity goes from something fun and “out there” to something that actually fucks you up in addition to allowing you to fuck (or be fucked).
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Jan 05
Posted by Roman Scandal
closeAuthor: Roman Scandal
Name:
Email: girlaboutchitown@gmail.com
Site: http://Romanscandal.com
About: Roman Scandal is the Headmaster of the blog School for Scandal (Romanscandal.com). S/he is a 31 year old genderqueer feminist sex educator and writer based in Chicago, and can be contacted at girlaboutchitown@gmail.com.See Authors Posts (11) in BDSM
Some women are born naturally dominant. Some learn to be dominant. In my case, it was a little from column A and a lot from column B. The skills I am going to discuss in this article apply to BD/SM Tops and Dominants of all genders, but these tips are geared towards “lifestyle” female Dominants (women who are dominant for their...
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Dec 29
Posted by Angel Propps
closeAuthor: Angel Propps
Name:
Email: ms.southeastleatherfest2011@gmail.com
Site: http://www.seleatherfest.com/
About: Angel Propps is a sex positive femme leatherdyke and the current holder of the Ms.SouthEastLeatherFest title. She travels the country with her genderqueer partner teaching classes at various BDSM/ Leather and Kink events. As a writer of erotica and horror she has been published many times by Xcite and Ravenous Romance as well as Pill Hill Press while her poetry can be found in various literary magazines.See Authors Posts (11) in BDSM, Personal Thoughts and Sharing
I like to be hurt, both physically and emotionally. I’m a masochist, so a lot of my sexual needs are tied into pain. But do I like pain?
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I’ve noticed a disturbing trend in kinky/fetish circles lately, and it’s the notion that “kink” is a four-letter word that is synonymous with BDSM. I’ve got news for you (though hopefully most of you already know this): A lot more than those four letters fit into “kink.”
Although Eden Cafe is a pretty...
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Gandhi said if you want to change the world, you have to be the change. To that end, Rayne brings you No Stupid (Kink) Questions, a series of questions asked by novice kinksters around the web.
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Dec 01
Posted by Spoken Pandora
closeAuthor: Spoken Pandora
Name:
Email: spoken@pandorasbedfellow.com
Site:
About: Spoken considers herself a tattooed gypsy freak who fornicates with words and is addicted to all things erotic and sexual. She uses her writing to give a voice to deviants like her who have been branded unworthy of speaking their mind. She wrote her first novel in December 2010 called Haven: The First Taste, a lesbian erotica series that focuses on BDSM through the eyes of a submissive and her Domme. From this recent leap of faith has come a passion for becoming a lesbian expert in all things sex (Hey, every girl can dream right?). One day she hopes to be an authority that all freaks, outcasts, and degenerates can look up to. On a serious note Spoken is simply a writer who lives to express herself through her work and she welcomes all into her world of dark secrets and alternative sex.See Authors Posts (9) in BDSM, Kink
I stood at the door afraid to knock and afraid not to. Beads of sweat rolled down parts of my body not exposed by my fitted low cut shirt and ankle length pencil skirt. In that moment, I questioned the choice to not wear panties. But it wasn’t my choice. It was his, and I obeyed without question. I never questioned him, from the...
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Nov 24
Posted by Angel ProppscloseAuthor: Angel Propps
Name:
Email: ms.southeastleatherfest2011@gmail.com
Site: http://www.seleatherfest.com/
About: Angel Propps is a sex positive femme leatherdyke and the current holder of the Ms.SouthEastLeatherFest title. She travels the country with her genderqueer partner teaching classes at various BDSM/ Leather and Kink events. As a writer of erotica and horror she has been published many times by Xcite and Ravenous Romance as well as Pill Hill Press while her poetry can be found in various literary magazines.See Authors Posts (11) in BDSM, Kink
For many years kink was portrayed by the media to be the dark alley, the grungy dungeon. Kink was the iconic image of women being shackled to a wall with heavy manacles, in a basement with a gritty concrete floor. Kink was the black and white images seen in bad movies that warned against poor judgment in sexual practices, declaring kink abusive, and practitioners of it abusers, and informing the public at large that anyone who practiced kink was a pervert and should be shunned.
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Nov 16
Posted by D. Cooper
closeAuthor: D. Cooper
Name:
Email: dcoopkc@yahoo.com
Site:
About: D. Cooper has been on his knees in the BDSM lifestyle for a number of years. He is actively involved with the local lifestyle community in the Midwest. Though he dreams of someday finding a sweet, sweet gal who will make him her little happy pet, he's preoccupied at the moment with exploring all the devious realms that exist.See Authors Posts (1) in BDSM, Kink
So there I was, tied and blindfolded on a table in a transsexual’s basement somewhere in a small Kansas town, filled with a panic-stricken anticipation as she slowly slid a stainless-steel rod inside my cock.
My Mistress and I had just had dinner with some friends. We had enjoyed their “playroom” before, and I was a huge...
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These information inconsistencies are well known. My point is that there is an aspect of being owned and living this lifestyle 24/7 that nobody tells you about at first.
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Nov 10
Posted by Angel ProppscloseAuthor: Angel Propps
Name:
Email: ms.southeastleatherfest2011@gmail.com
Site: http://www.seleatherfest.com/
About: Angel Propps is a sex positive femme leatherdyke and the current holder of the Ms.SouthEastLeatherFest title. She travels the country with her genderqueer partner teaching classes at various BDSM/ Leather and Kink events. As a writer of erotica and horror she has been published many times by Xcite and Ravenous Romance as well as Pill Hill Press while her poetry can be found in various literary magazines.See Authors Posts (11) in BDSM
I’m not saying I’m not interested in going out to dinner, or that I don’t appreciate getting flowers from my Daddy. I love those things. It’s just that when it comes to sex, I don’t need to be seduced or led into it. Drag me down the hallway kicking and screaming, throw me over the bed and then just fuck me like you hate me.
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Nov 03
Posted by Roman ScandalcloseAuthor: Roman Scandal
Name:
Email: girlaboutchitown@gmail.com
Site: http://Romanscandal.com
About: Roman Scandal is the Headmaster of the blog School for Scandal (Romanscandal.com). S/he is a 31 year old genderqueer feminist sex educator and writer based in Chicago, and can be contacted at girlaboutchitown@gmail.com.See Authors Posts (11) in BDSM, Kink
Several years ago, I split a bottle of cheap champagne and chatted with a wild, beautiful, pixie of a woman who happened to be a talented Pro-Domme. This was a few months after the stock market crashed, and Pixie (not her real name) complained that the economy was hurting her business. (So much for sex work as a recession-proof...
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Nov 03
Posted by Angel ProppscloseAuthor: Angel Propps
Name:
Email: ms.southeastleatherfest2011@gmail.com
Site: http://www.seleatherfest.com/
About: Angel Propps is a sex positive femme leatherdyke and the current holder of the Ms.SouthEastLeatherFest title. She travels the country with her genderqueer partner teaching classes at various BDSM/ Leather and Kink events. As a writer of erotica and horror she has been published many times by Xcite and Ravenous Romance as well as Pill Hill Press while her poetry can be found in various literary magazines.See Authors Posts (11) in BDSM, Kink
There are different kinds of hitting after all, and no matter how much I like it, I am never going to react to a blow I didn’t ask for or set out to receive the way I do to a well-aimed kick or flick of a whip.
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… Says the (almost) 32-year-old Woman
I never write about Breast Cancer Awareness. I never know what to say. I usually leave it up to more qualified writers who’ve got experience with the subject beyond just “My aunt died of a malignant brain tumor. Does that count?” I may have actually written exactly that...
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Lately there have been a few posts on Eden Café about relationships, sex and religion. However, there have been even more posts on personal blogs about it. The BDSM, D/s, M/s lifestyle is always changing for those that live it 24/7, because it’s daily life, and daily life never stays the same for long. Mostly though, I’ve seen...
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Sep 29
Posted by Rayne
closeAuthor: Rayne
Name: Rayne Millaray
Email: rayne@edenfantasys.com
Site: http://www.insatiabledesire.com/
About: A loving slave with sadistic tendencies and masochistic desires. Chaos incarnate. The girl your mother warned you about.
Reviewer at Eden Fantasys and long time blogger.See Authors Posts (467) in BDSM
Gandhi said if you want to change the world, you have to be the change. To that end, Rayne brings you No Stupid (Kink) Questions, a series of questions asked by novice kinksters around the web. If you have a question for Rayne, leave it in comments, or email it to rayne@insatiabledesire.com
Question 14:
So...
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Sep 29
Posted by Spoken PandoracloseAuthor: Spoken Pandora
Name:
Email: spoken@pandorasbedfellow.com
Site:
About: Spoken considers herself a tattooed gypsy freak who fornicates with words and is addicted to all things erotic and sexual. She uses her writing to give a voice to deviants like her who have been branded unworthy of speaking their mind. She wrote her first novel in December 2010 called Haven: The First Taste, a lesbian erotica series that focuses on BDSM through the eyes of a submissive and her Domme. From this recent leap of faith has come a passion for becoming a lesbian expert in all things sex (Hey, every girl can dream right?). One day she hopes to be an authority that all freaks, outcasts, and degenerates can look up to. On a serious note Spoken is simply a writer who lives to express herself through her work and she welcomes all into her world of dark secrets and alternative sex.See Authors Posts (9) in BDSM, Kink
Society tells us that to idolize or worship is to be reserved for those not of earth. And yet from birth we are taught to do these things. Mothers covet their sons, and fathers covet their daughters, and when they grow up, some crave this worship. It’s fresh on their breath like a mother’s breast milk. And some of us seek one on...
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I have a confession to make.
Sometimes I slap my wife around.
But before you start trying to figure out how to reach her to recommend women’s shelters, or try to track me down to have my kneecaps busted in (or worse), it’s not THAT kind of slapping around.
I’m the reluctant tough guy—my wife bottoming from the top at times,...
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Sep 22
Posted by Spoken PandoracloseAuthor: Spoken Pandora
Name:
Email: spoken@pandorasbedfellow.com
Site:
About: Spoken considers herself a tattooed gypsy freak who fornicates with words and is addicted to all things erotic and sexual. She uses her writing to give a voice to deviants like her who have been branded unworthy of speaking their mind. She wrote her first novel in December 2010 called Haven: The First Taste, a lesbian erotica series that focuses on BDSM through the eyes of a submissive and her Domme. From this recent leap of faith has come a passion for becoming a lesbian expert in all things sex (Hey, every girl can dream right?). One day she hopes to be an authority that all freaks, outcasts, and degenerates can look up to. On a serious note Spoken is simply a writer who lives to express herself through her work and she welcomes all into her world of dark secrets and alternative sex.See Authors Posts (9) in BDSM, Kink, Personal Thoughts and Sharing
Before I knew what I was, I found myself always wanting more–sexually. Every woman has the fantasy of being made love to in a sensual setting, and having every part of her explored. I too held on to these fantasies for some time, but after a while my fantasies began to turn on me. I no longer had visions of being laid out amongst...
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Sep 15
Posted by RaynecloseAuthor: Rayne
Name: Rayne Millaray
Email: rayne@edenfantasys.com
Site: http://www.insatiabledesire.com/
About: A loving slave with sadistic tendencies and masochistic desires. Chaos incarnate. The girl your mother warned you about.
Reviewer at Eden Fantasys and long time blogger.See Authors Posts (467) in BDSM
Life is pain, highness. Anyone who says differently is selling something.
~The Man in Black
We live in an “old neighborhood” as neighborhoods go in the United States. It was erected in the early 1900s as a place for employees of the American Locomotive Company to live and has become a place for folks who can’t...
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Sep 08
Posted by Aspy
closeAuthor: Aspy
Name:
Email: aspyps@yahoo.com
Site:
About: I'm an early 30's gamer chick into BDSM and a new kinky relationship with an awesome guy. Besides video games, I love reading, watching movies and my cat.See Authors Posts (1) in BDSM, Dating
I have recently found myself single after being married for four years. It wasn’t easy to jump back into the dating scene, especially after a breakup that should have never happened, but about a year ago, I was in that boat. I quickly got my profile on dating sites to try and get my confidence high enough that I didn’t hate...
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It’s not easy being a female slave these days. The whole world, it seems, stands against you.
What do I mean?
Let’s start with the constant battle for women’s rights. While I’ll agree that a woman should be allowed to live whatever life she wants, and will wholeheartedly support the fight for equality, there...
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M and I have been walking a lot. A LOT. In 11 days, we’ve done 18.44 miles. I don’t know where that falls in the grand scheme of things, but for us, that’s a whole friggin lot. If you factor in the day (or two… we can’t remember!) we didn’t walk, that’s an average of 2 miles a day. And...
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I am an exhibitionist. I’m sure I’ve said that before. It’s what drove me to begin writing about my sexcapades on the Internet and is what ultimately drew me to Internet Gor. I’m a writer, you see, and roleplaying on the Internet is an awesome exercise in one’s descriptive capabilities. And the perfect...
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Jul 14
Posted by Angel ProppscloseAuthor: Angel Propps
Name:
Email: ms.southeastleatherfest2011@gmail.com
Site: http://www.seleatherfest.com/
About: Angel Propps is a sex positive femme leatherdyke and the current holder of the Ms.SouthEastLeatherFest title. She travels the country with her genderqueer partner teaching classes at various BDSM/ Leather and Kink events. As a writer of erotica and horror she has been published many times by Xcite and Ravenous Romance as well as Pill Hill Press while her poetry can be found in various literary magazines.See Authors Posts (11) in BDSM, Body Image
I use one of the many BDSM social sites to find events and keep track of my far flung friends. I also use it to talk to new people in my local area. We were all new to the lifestyle once, and I enjoy reaching out to answer questions or reassurance.
The thing I hear the most is that a lot of women, and men, are afraid to come out...
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Jun 16
Posted by Anonymous
closeAuthor: Anonymous
Name:
Email: carrieann@edenfantasys.com
Site:
About: Occasionally, we have authors submit articles but prefer they remain anonymous as the author. All such articles will be posted under this account; authors are not all the same anonymous user, but varied contributors who do not wish to be identified.See Authors Posts (24) in BDSM, Kink
When I was younger, I thought the kinkiest thing ever was a pair of furry handcuffs. I had a bracelet with an O ring, and everyone thought I was super hardcore for wearing it. I didn’t even know what an O ring was for! After a couple years, I started harming myself, and I became really submissive to everyone, and my sadistic...
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It seems there is no area of life in which pretentious, judgmental and cliquey people cannot totally fuck up the vibe—not even the worlds of consensual non-monogamy and dominance/submission are safe from them.
I mean, I would like to think that while such sexually open-minded sorts aren’t going to agree on everything,...
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Jun 02
Posted by RaynecloseAuthor: Rayne
Name: Rayne Millaray
Email: rayne@edenfantasys.com
Site: http://www.insatiabledesire.com/
About: A loving slave with sadistic tendencies and masochistic desires. Chaos incarnate. The girl your mother warned you about.
Reviewer at Eden Fantasys and long time blogger.See Authors Posts (467) in BDSM
Sometimes, I get really frustrated with my station in life.
It happens to everyone. I’m betting even the closest-to-perfect person with the closest-to-perfect life occasionally gets frustrated with their life. Even if it’s over something silly, like not being able to make a decent cup of coffee.
This is not to say that...
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BDSM is a very liquid thing. There is no right way, or wrong way to go about things. Doing what feels right is the basis of each BDSM relationship; views on what’s allowed or “real” vary greatly. Some follow definitions, labels, and roles very closely, and believe that’s the only true way to go about things. While...
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So I have been presented with the challenge to write an article about the ethics of D/s within the boundaries of Paganism/Wicca. I spent quite some time in a rather annoying head space with a nice side of writer’s block. I posed the question to one of my BDSM groups online and got some rather varied answers ranging from, “I...
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May 12
Posted by RaynecloseAuthor: Rayne
Name: Rayne Millaray
Email: rayne@edenfantasys.com
Site: http://www.insatiabledesire.com/
About: A loving slave with sadistic tendencies and masochistic desires. Chaos incarnate. The girl your mother warned you about.
Reviewer at Eden Fantasys and long time blogger.See Authors Posts (467) in BDSM
I’m sipping Sumatra and munching on melon. And all I can think about is the other night.
We don’t have a lot of time for each other these days. If one of us is off, the other is working. M’s taken to taking long lunches to get errands done so that maybe we’ll have time after work to be together, but that just...
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Apr 21
Posted by Bad Bad Girl
closeAuthor: Bad Bad Girl
Name:
Email: badbadgirlx@gmail.com
Site:
About: I’m a kinky, submissive, grad student in her late 30’s and still working out my Daddy issues. I’m sarcastic, funny, and open minded and I will try anything twice because the first time may have been a fluke. I talk about sex, write about sex and do all that I can to have lots of sex.
I’m most recognizable by my big mess of black hair (circa Janet Jackson, 1986) and pictures of my cleavage but I’m not all tits and hair. I’m brazen and inappropriate but still fearful of confrontation. I’m a sex blogger with kids, a cat, a minivan and more sex toys that a girl should be allowed.See Authors Posts (8) in BDSM
In talking with many of my submissive friends, there seems to be general consensus that we share. It’s an idea that we that seems so obvious, but lack on it strikes fear, disappointment and often times resentment. In the BDSM community, in D/s relationships it’s a common thread of communication, but sadly, sometimes...
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Apr 07
Posted by RaynecloseAuthor: Rayne
Name: Rayne Millaray
Email: rayne@edenfantasys.com
Site: http://www.insatiabledesire.com/
About: A loving slave with sadistic tendencies and masochistic desires. Chaos incarnate. The girl your mother warned you about.
Reviewer at Eden Fantasys and long time blogger.See Authors Posts (467) in BDSM
I was so not expecting our relationship to be where it is today.
You were so not expecting to hear that from me. Right?
Basically, it goes like this:
I read a lot of blogs written by supposed slaves before I decided a slave is what I want to be.
I don’t usually say that anymore. “Supposed slaves”. I turn my nose up...
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Mar 28
Posted by lunaKM
closeAuthor: lunaKM
Name:
Email: knyghtmares.luna@gmail.com
Site: http://lunakm.me
About: lunaKM is a 33 yr old madly-in-love submissive with the Dominant man of her dreams. Her explorations with love and life and BDSM have brought her closer to the edge of pain and pleasure, deep desires for rope bondage and debauchery but moreso a desire to delve deeper into submission and service. lunaKM is a prolific sex-writer and submissive mentor on several websites. When she’s not writing she’s cooking, cleaning and caring for her man. She enjoys knitting, reading and public speaking and doesn’t get out of the house as often as she’d like.
Site: http://lunakm.meSee Authors Posts (6) in BDSM, Sex and Sexuality
In 1996 I lost my virginity. I was 19. Years before I had been exploring my sexual desires through self-love, and had pretty clear expectations about what sex was like. After all, I had seen the nudy magazines under my parents bed, and happened upon a VHS tape left in the VCR. It looked fun, dirty, and I was transfixed. So,...
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Mar 17
Posted by Merridia S
closeAuthor: Merridia S
Name:
Email: smerridia@gmail.com
Site:
About: I am the ripe age of 21 years, defined by society as a sexual deviant, and loving every minute of it.
Education... Well, I would have to say that I am an aspiring English Teacher. I am a Sophomore in college, and I'm hoping that one day soon I can graduate with my full degree. My minor is creative writing.
I have always been a writer. I remember being elven years old, sitting in my living room with one of those old styled typewriters because we didn't own a computer at the time, typing furiously away at some idea I had. I love writing fiction, or articles that relate to real life. I find it my goal to educate through my writing, or entertain people with my writing. It is my joy, my passion, my love.
I suppose that in my small autobiography here, I should mention that I am a very blessed person. I have a circle of friends who are very supportive of me, of my writing, of my life in general. I have Eric, my boyfriend who greets me every morning with a smile. With him, I always feel wanted and loved. I have Airen and Sigel who have shared with me a broad view of new experiences, but have always respected my comfort level. Airen is the reason I submitted to EdenCafe. She has been a wonderful supporter of my writing, even though I find it lacking. It has been said that, “you are your worst critic”, and it rings true. If I'm having trouble with my writing, and I'm upset, Airen always has a “pick me up”. Sigel is there for me as an emotional leaning post. He listens to me complain, cry, throw a tantrum. Whatever I need at the time. And he always knows the right thing to say. These three people are, besides my mother, the most important people in my life.See Authors Posts (4) in BDSM
Being a college student, I find myself amidst many lovely, thoughtful, and encouraging conversations. I have found that my professors, for the larger part of my academic career so far, have been very wonderful, and intelligent people. They have been great pillars to lean on during my college years thus far. However, I’m...
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Mar 17
Posted by Jade Twilight
closeAuthor: Jade Twilight
Name:
Email: jadetwilight13@gmail.com
Site: http://JadedVixen.blogspot.com
About: Jade is an erotic writer as well as a married stay at home mom. She and her family live in the wilds of northern New York. When not dreaming up sexy demons, vamps and dragons, to write about, she’s doing random unglamorous things like cleaning, dishes and taking out the trash. Find more from Jade on her blog http://JadedVixen.blogspot.com ~ Come Fondle My Pages!See Authors Posts (5) in BDSM, Kink
How many of you remember Popeye’s catch phrase “I y-am what I y-am.”?
I think this sums up a person. I am what I am and your not gonna change me. I have a submissive personality, except when I’m PMSing. Then you just don’t want me around at all, lol. Now while I am a sub, I’m not going to let you or anyone else walk...
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Mar 03
Posted by RaynecloseAuthor: Rayne
Name: Rayne Millaray
Email: rayne@edenfantasys.com
Site: http://www.insatiabledesire.com/
About: A loving slave with sadistic tendencies and masochistic desires. Chaos incarnate. The girl your mother warned you about.
Reviewer at Eden Fantasys and long time blogger.See Authors Posts (467) in BDSM
I’ll stand in the middle of the room like a petulant child, my fists and jaw clenched, my eyes set on some solid part of the room. I let the words shatter over my head, and feel the shards pierce my flesh, and dissolve into the floor with the pain. And then he yanks me back to the surface. Pulls me in for another dose. Refuses...
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Feb 24
Posted by RaynecloseAuthor: Rayne
Name: Rayne Millaray
Email: rayne@edenfantasys.com
Site: http://www.insatiabledesire.com/
About: A loving slave with sadistic tendencies and masochistic desires. Chaos incarnate. The girl your mother warned you about.
Reviewer at Eden Fantasys and long time blogger.See Authors Posts (467) in BDSM
Last week, I wrote about how I react to the little things M asks me to do. And I got a comment that makes me think I didn’t really make the point I meant to. And it seems I made one that isn’t true.
Jessie said:
I just wanted to say I really enjoyed reading this post. There is so much here that I can relate to, from...
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Feb 24
Posted by Rose
closeAuthor: Rose
Name:
Email: kmhays2006@gmail.com
Site:
About: Rose is a 22 year old woman just starting her journey into the life of kink and BDSM. She is a switch with a strong submissive bent, but will Dom with the right sub boy or girl. A writer, a dancer and lover of all things kink she thrives on the eccentricities of life."See Authors Posts (2) in BDSM
This question was put to me via a transgendered friend/co-worker who is also part of the lifestyle. She had the same question posed to her by her doctor, who was trying to understand her kinks, and why she did what she did. I won’t go into the whole conversation, and what she and I discussed, but it made me think about what...
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Feb 17
Posted by RaynecloseAuthor: Rayne
Name: Rayne Millaray
Email: rayne@edenfantasys.com
Site: http://www.insatiabledesire.com/
About: A loving slave with sadistic tendencies and masochistic desires. Chaos incarnate. The girl your mother warned you about.
Reviewer at Eden Fantasys and long time blogger.See Authors Posts (467) in BDSM
Last night, M asked me why I always catch attitude when he tells me to put on my leather collar and cuffs.
Normally a question that accusatory would put me on the defensive.
What’re you talking about? I don’t catch attitude when you tell me to put on my collar and cuffs. Quit being such a baby.
But the thing is… I...
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Feb 10
Posted by Bad Bad GirlcloseAuthor: Bad Bad Girl
Name:
Email: badbadgirlx@gmail.com
Site:
About: I’m a kinky, submissive, grad student in her late 30’s and still working out my Daddy issues. I’m sarcastic, funny, and open minded and I will try anything twice because the first time may have been a fluke. I talk about sex, write about sex and do all that I can to have lots of sex.
I’m most recognizable by my big mess of black hair (circa Janet Jackson, 1986) and pictures of my cleavage but I’m not all tits and hair. I’m brazen and inappropriate but still fearful of confrontation. I’m a sex blogger with kids, a cat, a minivan and more sex toys that a girl should be allowed.See Authors Posts (8) in BDSM
I have a lot of questions. I think if asked every question I had, SirX would have to start limiting the number of questions I can ask every day. Most often my questions would fall under the categories: Can I do this? Did you like that I did that? What do you think of me?
Looking at these questions, I think, oh no, it’s all...
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Feb 03
Posted by RaynecloseAuthor: Rayne
Name: Rayne Millaray
Email: rayne@edenfantasys.com
Site: http://www.insatiabledesire.com/
About: A loving slave with sadistic tendencies and masochistic desires. Chaos incarnate. The girl your mother warned you about.
Reviewer at Eden Fantasys and long time blogger.See Authors Posts (467) in BDSM
Gandhi said that if you want to change the world, you have to be the change you want to see. To that end, Rayne brings you No Stupid (Kink) Questions, a series of questions asked by novice kinksters around the web. If you have a question for Rayne, leave it in comments, or email it to...
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Jan 27
Posted by Bad Bad GirlcloseAuthor: Bad Bad Girl
Name:
Email: badbadgirlx@gmail.com
Site:
About: I’m a kinky, submissive, grad student in her late 30’s and still working out my Daddy issues. I’m sarcastic, funny, and open minded and I will try anything twice because the first time may have been a fluke. I talk about sex, write about sex and do all that I can to have lots of sex.
I’m most recognizable by my big mess of black hair (circa Janet Jackson, 1986) and pictures of my cleavage but I’m not all tits and hair. I’m brazen and inappropriate but still fearful of confrontation. I’m a sex blogger with kids, a cat, a minivan and more sex toys that a girl should be allowed.See Authors Posts (8) in BDSM, Kink
As a new slave in training, I have found myself worrying out the W-word. That horrible word that I think lots of new subs, or slaves, or those in training, fear.
Wrong.
You’re doing it wrong.
I hate not doing things well, and often I find myself NOT doing things that I don’t think I can do, or I know I do poorly (singing,...
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Jan 20
Posted by RaynecloseAuthor: Rayne
Name: Rayne Millaray
Email: rayne@edenfantasys.com
Site: http://www.insatiabledesire.com/
About: A loving slave with sadistic tendencies and masochistic desires. Chaos incarnate. The girl your mother warned you about.
Reviewer at Eden Fantasys and long time blogger.See Authors Posts (467) in BDSM
Gandhi said that if you want to change the world, you have to be the change you want to see. To that end, Rayne brings you No Stupid (Kink) Questions, a series of questions asked by novice kinksters around the web. If you have a question for Rayne, leave it in comments, or email it to...
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Jan 13
Posted by Bex
closeAuthor: Bex
Name: Bex vanKoot
Email: bexvankoot@gmail.com
Site: http://www.getsexsavvy.com/
About: "Dakini dilettante, married pansexual and pagan polyamorist, Bex vanKoot has always had a deep desire to change the world through the spread of sexual empowerment and alternative loving.
This passionate 28-year-old Canadian is a freelance contributor for BytesOfLove.com and maintains several of her own blogs, including GetSexSavvy.blogspot.com for open conversations about sex along with reviews of many Eden Fantasys products. She offers a fresh, open and frank look at love and sexuality, encouraging others to find and keep strong and happy loving relationships."See Authors Posts (14) in BDSM, Fetish, Kink
In the Beginning
I’ve always been a sexual person, as long as I can remember back into my youth. I used to practice kissing my motorized Teddy Ruxpin doll when I was as young as 5 or 6 years old and soon after I realized that buzzing fuzzy mouth felt good other places too. Typically, talking about these young experiences is taboo...
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Jan 13
Posted by RaynecloseAuthor: Rayne
Name: Rayne Millaray
Email: rayne@edenfantasys.com
Site: http://www.insatiabledesire.com/
About: A loving slave with sadistic tendencies and masochistic desires. Chaos incarnate. The girl your mother warned you about.
Reviewer at Eden Fantasys and long time blogger.See Authors Posts (467) in BDSM
Gandhi said that if you want to change the world, you have to be the change you want to see. To that end, Rayne brings you No Stupid (Kink) Questions, a series of questions asked by novice kinksters around the web. If you have a question for Rayne, leave it in comments, or email it to...
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Jan 13
Posted by Bad Bad GirlcloseAuthor: Bad Bad Girl
Name:
Email: badbadgirlx@gmail.com
Site:
About: I’m a kinky, submissive, grad student in her late 30’s and still working out my Daddy issues. I’m sarcastic, funny, and open minded and I will try anything twice because the first time may have been a fluke. I talk about sex, write about sex and do all that I can to have lots of sex.
I’m most recognizable by my big mess of black hair (circa Janet Jackson, 1986) and pictures of my cleavage but I’m not all tits and hair. I’m brazen and inappropriate but still fearful of confrontation. I’m a sex blogger with kids, a cat, a minivan and more sex toys that a girl should be allowed.See Authors Posts (8) in BDSM, Body Image, Kink
I consider myself a ‘bigger girl’. Many have said, “No, no- you’re not THAT big! Definitely not considered a BBW.” However, when I consider my weight to my height, and my dress size, I’m big enough. If I’m not big enough to be considered a BBW, then I’m just ‘short and fat’ – and well, that’s no...
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Jan 06
Posted by RaynecloseAuthor: Rayne
Name: Rayne Millaray
Email: rayne@edenfantasys.com
Site: http://www.insatiabledesire.com/
About: A loving slave with sadistic tendencies and masochistic desires. Chaos incarnate. The girl your mother warned you about.
Reviewer at Eden Fantasys and long time blogger.See Authors Posts (467) in BDSM, Rant
Every once in a while, M does something that’s really just not fair. Like purchase his own vice and refuse, though we have the money, to purchase mine. And mine’s cheaper!
I’ve never been particularly spoiled. No more than any other daddy’s-girl-turned-rebel, anyway. I mean, I got my way, a lot, with just...
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Dec 30
Posted by RaynecloseAuthor: Rayne
Name: Rayne Millaray
Email: rayne@edenfantasys.com
Site: http://www.insatiabledesire.com/
About: A loving slave with sadistic tendencies and masochistic desires. Chaos incarnate. The girl your mother warned you about.
Reviewer at Eden Fantasys and long time blogger.See Authors Posts (467) in BDSM
Gandhi said that if you want to change the world, you have to be the change you want to see. To that end, Rayne brings you No Stupid (Kink) Questions, a series of questions asked by novice kinksters around the web. If you have a question for Rayne, leave it in comments, or email it to...
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Dec 16
Posted by RaynecloseAuthor: Rayne
Name: Rayne Millaray
Email: rayne@edenfantasys.com
Site: http://www.insatiabledesire.com/
About: A loving slave with sadistic tendencies and masochistic desires. Chaos incarnate. The girl your mother warned you about.
Reviewer at Eden Fantasys and long time blogger.See Authors Posts (467) in BDSM
Gandhi said that if you want to change the world, you have to be the change you want to see. To that end, Rayne brings you No Stupid (Kink) Questions, a series of questions asked by novice kinksters around the web. If you have a question for rayne, leave it in comments, or send it to rayne (at) insatiabledesire (dot)...
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Dec 14
Posted by P'gell
closeAuthor: P'gell
Name:
Email: zpmd@comcast.net
Site:
About: P'Gell is over 35. Do you need to know more than that? Probably. She's fluid bonded and legally married to Her Man. They have offspring (yes, they bred. :0 ) She has worked in Health Care, written for various journals and magazines and is often a little too opinionated. She had an advice column in the local papers for teens when she was one. Busy trying to finish too many novels and stories at once. Devours books, both off the shelf and erotica, constantly. Engages in her and Her Man's own form of Sex, Love and Kink. Possibly nymphomaniac, positively love sick, full time lover and mother, part time submissive, even after decades with the same Man. She's an Advanced Reviewer at Edenfantasys.comSee Authors Posts (5) in BDSM, Kink, Sex and Sexuality
I could write about the Kink. People do it all the time. I’m not going to tell you anything you haven’t already read, or seen, or done. Being thrown onto a bed, or a chair or the floor. The unbelievable things that are possible with enough lube. The excitement of having your hair grabbed and your face being throw onto a cock...
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