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Seeking Other Kinky Couples…Maybe

2. September 2010

I’ve been a slave, of sorts, for close to 3 years. My owner loves me fondly, and I absolutely adore him. I hang on his every word and love his goofy, crooked smile and the way he fucks. When we are together, we live the life of Reilly. We smoke pot, drink top shelf tequila [...]

Day 3: How did you discover you were kinky?

2. September 2010

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This is my second installment of Thirty Days of Kink, though it will probably post after my third. For links to the others, click here. Day 3: How did you discover you were kinky? There were multiple indicators that my sexual appetites were a bit different than those of the vast majority of my peers. [...]

Extreme

2. September 2010

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I’m always afraid to say that I am extreme in my kink tastes. I think people will think that I am bragging or trying to one-up them. I don’t say it because I am afraid that people will think that I am trying to say that I am better than them- or kinkier than them. [...]

I Wish I Had a Slave

26. August 2010

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Sometimes I wish I had a slave. Sometimes, I just plain ‘ole wish I wasn’t in an egalitarian relationship, no matter which way it went. ‘Cuz I really am in an egalitarian relationship, but at the same time I’m not. I’m the only one working right now. Which means, quite literally, everything we have since [...]

Small Things

26. August 2010

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The boyfriend and I’s Master/slave relationship is probably apparently in really small ways. When I think about it, I sometimes think that the two of us don’t really deserve to be in the BDSM community since we seem to practice so differently than the vast majority of our other BDSM group counterparts, but we’re okay [...]

When Pain Fails as Punishment

19. August 2010

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Yesterday was pretty shitty. I got in trouble. And I got beat. The beating is rarely the punishment. I mean, he always means for it to be, but neither of us can control what the beating does to our respective parts. And yesterday was no different. The beating, regardless of how angry M is, often [...]

30 Days: Hard Limits

12. August 2010

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On my personal blog, I’m working on a couple prompt projects. I’ve been blogging since 2003 (on Insatiable Desire since 2005), and while I’m sure there’s a ton I haven’t covered, you start to lose track of what you’ve talked about when you have over a thousand posts. Which, in turn, makes it difficult to [...]

Hiding

5. August 2010

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For the longest time I’ve hidden who I am. Even when I was married I suppressed parts of my personality, kept things I enjoyed buried and forced other, more socially acceptable aspects of my personality to the forefront. After my husband left me and I got past the “my world is ending and I can [...]

Forced Nudity

5. August 2010

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The first thing I read this morning was a post by a good friend of mine about how her owner likes to make her strip and just stare at her various parts. Usually while masturbating. And usually with her spread every which way so that he can see all of her. It got me thinking [...]

Kitty Play

29. July 2010

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So, a part of me that I’m still trying to fit into my day-to-day life is my kitty side. Having experimented with D/s and BDSM I have found that the pet play aspect to those lifestyles is the one that I enjoy most. However, D and I have a vanilla relationship, and truth be told, [...]

Scene to Me

22. July 2010

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I’m sure, by now, if you’re active in the sex blogging community, or know a kinkster who is, you’ve probably heard of FetLife. I belong to a group there called BDSM Glossary (FetLife is free, but requires log in to view content.). It’s a group dedicated to gathering set definitions for specific terms heard around [...]

Natural Order/Misogyny

15. July 2010

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A couple weeks ago, I mentioned that M believes in a natural order. That means, basically, that he believes that men and women each have their place in the balance of life, and that they are not on equal footing. I hear you grumbling. But it’s not what you think. M’s belief in a natural [...]

My World of Rope Suspension

15. July 2010

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You see, I kinda have this thing where I get caught up in random fetishes at random points in time. I obsess over them, I’m extremely excited by them, and I perfect my technique with them. Earlier this year, it was tons of impact play – floggers, canes, crops. After that, it was pony play [...]

I am Grateful

1. July 2010

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This morning, I woke to hands gliding along my naked body, teasing and tormenting along their slow, gentle journey. As I swept the sleep cobwebs from the corners of my mind, moist lips and a nimble tongue began nibbling their way up and down my back. Sharp teeth in the crook of my neck pulled [...]

Our Gorean Side

24. June 2010

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Swords are often drawn on Gor over women, and particularly over women. Women are prizes, perfections and treasures. It is no wonder that men will fight over them with such ferocity. Renegades of Gor, page 297 There’s an aspect of my slavery that I don’t often talk about, anymore. It’s stupid, really, because it’s still [...]

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