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Seeking Other Kinky Couples…Maybe

2. September 2010

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Seeking Other Kinky Couples…Maybe

I’ve been a slave, of sorts, for close to 3 years. My owner loves me fondly, and I absolutely adore him. I hang on his every word and love his goofy, crooked smile and the way he fucks. When we are together, we live the life of Reilly. We smoke pot, drink top shelf tequila [...]

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Day 3: How did you discover you were kinky?

2. September 2010

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Day 3: How did you discover you were kinky?

This is my second installment of Thirty Days of Kink, though it will probably post after my third. For links to the others, click here. Day 3: How did you discover you were kinky? There were multiple indicators that my sexual appetites were a bit different than those of the vast majority of my peers. [...]

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Extreme

2. September 2010

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Extreme

I’m always afraid to say that I am extreme in my kink tastes. I think people will think that I am bragging or trying to one-up them. I don’t say it because I am afraid that people will think that I am trying to say that I am better than them- or kinkier than them. [...]

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How an Affair Can Help Your Marriage

1. September 2010

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How an Affair Can Help Your Marriage

When I first got the idea for this post a few weeks ago, it was going to go very differently. Christopher and I had shared a blissful week and a half of shameless flirting, some conversations that were definitely dirtier than our spouses would have approved of, and even a few stolen moments alone when [...]

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Six Times an Asshole

1. September 2010

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Six Times an Asshole

For several months during my misspent youth I worked a second job waiting tables at a neighborhood bar and grill. After finishing up one Friday night, all the closers went out for a drink. Somehow Mike the bartender and I ended up being the last ones there, and we subsequently left together. I must have [...]

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Polyamory Can Work

31. August 2010

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Polyamory Can Work

Recently we had a very sad little shout out to anyone who has a thriving successful polyamorous relationship. This poor guy was worried because while everywhere he read that polyamory is a wonderful lovestyle, and it is a wonderful lovestyle, but when he would ask questions he would get sob story after sob story. It’s [...]

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Age and Gender

31. August 2010

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Age and Gender

Gender is, if anything, complicated. There are innumerable elements one could cite: masculinity/femininity, aggressiveness, clothing, speech, color preferences, body modification—the list goes on. But one element, I feel, is underexplored: age. Usually, we talk about two genders: men and women. If we are in the queer community, we may go with more, including genderqueer or [...]

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Breastfeeding

30. August 2010

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Breastfeeding

I have two kids and breastfed both of them, actually I’m still breastfeeding my youngest who’s 16 months. While there are great benefits to doing this there are down sides. While preaching how it’s better for baby they fail to tell you about the physical demand on your body. The doctors, professionals, lactation specialists tell [...]

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A Walk on the Wylde Side with Luc Wylder

27. August 2010

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A Walk on the Wylde Side with Luc Wylder

Since the dawn of adult entertainment few have made an impact of epic proportion like Luc Wylder. In an industry riddled with pre-conceived notions, incrimination and prejudice, Wylder’s efforts have always catered to a more sensual and free spirited audience. Shining through a vivid spectrum of roles from performer to director to producer, the father [...]

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In Defense of Single Women in Hollywood

27. August 2010

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In Defense of Single Women in Hollywood

1. Desperation Showbiz spy states that Renee Zellweger is DESPERATE to have a child, marriage or not. Desperate, really? Can we get out a thesaurus? Perhaps she’s eager or feels the time is right for her to have a child. For many, especially the wealthy, marriage is unnecessary and out-dated to an extent. The other [...]

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I Wish I Had a Slave

26. August 2010

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I Wish I Had a Slave

Sometimes I wish I had a slave.  Sometimes, I just plain ‘ole wish I wasn’t in an egalitarian relationship, no matter which way it went.  ‘Cuz I really am in an egalitarian relationship, but at the same time I’m not.  I’m the only one working right now. Which means, quite literally, everything we have since [...]

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Stupid Spoiled Whores

26. August 2010

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Stupid Spoiled Whores

I dunno why I always jump on the bandwagon of babble these days. I’m also not entirely sure why I always do it long after most people have stopped babbling about it. But what confuses me most is my penchant for writing about things that make no sense to me. This topic confuses the shit [...]

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Small Things

26. August 2010

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Small Things

The boyfriend and I’s Master/slave relationship is probably apparently in really small ways. When I think about it, I sometimes think that the two of us don’t really deserve to be in the BDSM community since we seem to practice so differently than the vast majority of our other BDSM group counterparts, but we’re okay [...]

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Stigmatophilia

25. August 2010

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Stigmatophilia

Stigmatophilia. If you think anything like me, your first thought might be that this is a rather zealous sexual appreciation for crucifixion. Or the Catholic church. Or even that Patricia Arquette movie where her palms kept spewing blood on the subway. However we’d all be wrong. In actuality, stigmatophilia is a fetish involving those with [...]

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Best Friends

25. August 2010

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Best Friends

I have three best friends. They mean the world to me, cliché I know, but true. They are completely different people, but all connected by the common string of me! The first one, and perhaps most important to me, is an extremely intelligent, funny, loving, nonjudgmental girl who was born in Poland. We met in [...]

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