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M/s : Honorifics

11. March 2010

A while back, I heard a rumor. Someone thought it was absolutely abhorrent that I am required to call M “Master” when speaking to or about him, and that I’m usually required to capitalize “he” and “him” when I’m writing. Today, while trying to pick a topic to discuss here, I thought about [...]

Playing Dumb

11. March 2010

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Back in the day (I’m vague on which day exactly but nevertheless…) women had the reputation for “playing dumb.” I’m under the impression that this had something to do with not emasculating their objects and therefore winning them over with their docility and allure. Ultimately I think the goal was to get them down the [...]

Kinky Pride

11. March 2010

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$Kinky Pride$

I have a hard time keeping my mouth shut. I like to talk to people about everything. I am definitely an extrovert. Which became a problem when I started a kinky relationship; I was faced with the problem of keeping my mouth shut or possibly alienating friends. I hear that quite [...]

e[lust] #9

10. March 2010

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HNT Courtesy of Margaret at They Belong to Us Welcome to e[lust] - your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #10? Start with [...]

Transtastic: On Being Young and Trans

10. March 2010

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I’m not well versed in any body of knowledge that could be termed “transgender history.” So you’ll have to take it with a grain of salt when I say that I came of age in a unique, historical turning point in the life of the trans community. I can’t put a date on when [...]

Fears of a Secret Genderqueer

10. March 2010

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I’m nervous about packing. Since I don’t disclose myself though I do openly cross dress, I’m sure people have their assumptions. Considering that I work publicly in front of a group of people at least once a week, I feel almost like I’m on stage. I know what it’s like to be on stage after eight [...]

The Best of Both Worlds or Lost in Limbo?

10. March 2010

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Greedy, unsure, just experimenting, going through a phase, a slut, a liar. All things that I have heard bisexual people referred to as, in today’s so-called modern society. Whether intentional or unthinking, bisexual denial is a frustrating thing for bisexual, pansexual or ‘fluid’ people to have to deal with. It became unacceptable, in the majority of places, [...]

The Sex Spectrum

9. March 2010

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I’ve come up with the following Sex Spectrum – where do you fall? Where do(es) your partner(s) fall? Repressed – Thinks sex is distasteful, doesn’t recognize any fetishes or fantasies, thinks genitals are ugly, has sex in the dark, doesn’t masturbate, could easily do without sex Vanilla – Holding, cuddling, standard sex positions, passionate lovemaking, vacation [...]

The Hard Way: I am a Bastard

9. March 2010

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When I was finishing up elementary school, my sister fell ill and eventually succumbed to a blood disease. It was around this time that I came to know that she was only my half sister (we shared the same mother) and that her father was not my father. Up until this point, this was a [...]

WotW: Novelty

9. March 2010

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We sex toy buyers and reviewers see this word on various kinds of packages: “Sold as an adult novelty only.” I’ve noticed plenty of people (mostly toy reviewers) get upset over the word “novelty” as though the manufacturer put it there to insult their intelligence. Or they see it as evidence that a toy is [...]

The Human Pheromone: truth vs controversy

8. March 2010

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Lately I have noticed the toll that pheromones have taken on the sex industry. It is a major market tool and actually is massively growing in the sex community. Pheromones are now found in various forms including, but not limited to: perfumes, lotions, oils, candles, supplements, etc. I never really knew what they were, and [...]

Rape in the Movies

8. March 2010

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What do the movies “Hollow Man”, “Deliverance”, and “An American Haunting”, “High Plains Drifter” all have in common? All of these movies feature, in one way or another, rape. Otherwise good movies, ruined for me with the inclusion of [...]

Red Flags of an Abusive Partner: Part I

5. March 2010

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Many people are interested in ways they can predict whether they are about to become involved with someone who will be abusive. There are red flags of potential batterers, if you know what kinds of behaviors and patterns to look for. Some of them are more obvious than others. For a full list of warning [...]

The Daddy Issue

5. March 2010

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I’ve been carrying the dirty secret around for so long I didn’t realize it was a secret. It was buried down so deep that it didn’t even hurt. Something I never really wanted unearthed, and I am not sure what the benefit is of the realization, but knowing is always better than not [...]

M/s — New toys

4. March 2010

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Remember back in the beginning when I said I’m a pleasure slave? And I said that doesn’t mean I only serve in a sexual capacity? But I do serve in a sexual capacity. And often. More often than not, our sexual encounters are more about M than me, or even us. That’s [...]

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M/s : Honorifics

Playing Dumb

Kinky Pride

e[lust] #9

Transtastic: On Being Young and Trans

Fears of a Secret Genderqueer

The Best of Both Worlds or Lost in Limbo?

The Sex Spectrum

The Hard Way: I am a Bastard

WotW: Novelty

The Human Pheromone: truth vs controversy

Rape in the Movies

Red Flags of an Abusive Partner: Part I

The Daddy Issue

M/s — New toys

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