Boring Life of a Kinkster

It was over a year ago that I started my journey in kink. I’ve always known I liked my sex a bit rougher than others. I knew I liked being told what to do, but didn’t really know too much about kink. I met a guy online who I shared some of my fantasies with. I talked to him about what I liked in relationships in general too, not just in the bedroom. He gave me some resources and I felt like a weight was lifted off of me. There were others like me!
That man, is the man who I am in a Master/slave relationship with right now. It wasn’t an easy decision to explain to others. People are so caught up in the fact that women should be progressing in the workplace and world, that I was condemned by many by wanting to serve a man in a relationship. I tried to explain that the only relationships that I saw working were ones where the woman stayed at home and did the house and home things. People didn’t care. They thought single handedly I was taking women’s rights back three decades.
It didn’t faze me too much though. Regardless of their remarks that I am spineless, I actually am a strong woman, and stood by my wants. So I entered into a wonderfully kinky relationship. A regular day in my life isn’t too different from a vanilla person’s life. I wake up, kneel for ten minutes, get ready, take care of the pets, log online and spend hours on EdenFantasy.com, clean some more, kneel for fifteen minutes, then make dinner and do different nightly things. So, minus the kneeling and being obsessed with edenfantasy, it’s normal. I’m not chained in a basement. I am not constantly being whipped. I live a fairly normal and boring life.
That’s not what people read these articles for though. You want juicy! You want sexy! I do that too. Punching, spanking, choking, and hair pulling are all staples in my home. I purr in excitement when I know a sexual tryst is coming because our tastes are wide and varied. One night I am getting spanked because I was a ‘bad girl’ because I got a B in English. The next night I am being called a little slut while being choked as I cum. Really, I’ve never had a bad sexual encounter in this relationship. Everything is fun.
I’m lucky that I realized my kink at such a young age. I don’t have to go through life having unsatisfying sex. I know what I like, and I partake in all of the naughty debauchery. But really, I live a boring life. Can’t you tell?

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2 Comments

  1. You are very lucky to realize your kink early and are having such a positive and fulfilling experience. Not many young women/men your age are gifted with a caring and understanding Dom/Domme. I did not realize my true kink until i was 21 and i am coming up upon my one year “anniversary” as well.

    The hardest thing is still living at home at 22 with a mostly closed minded mother who forbids me to even talk about kink in her house, even though i help pay rent/utilities etc.

    I’m not even going to try to think about attempting coming out to her as less than straight and narrow

  2. Aw, this was a really great post. In theory I would like to write like this also C taking time and real effort to create a good article?- but what can I say?- I procrastinate alot and never seem to get something done.

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