It doesn’t exist.

That means, if you’re a pro domme, you take extra care and be sure not to do things that will cause harm, accident or serious injury.  Cuz your homeowners insurance doesn’t have a BDSM plan and the local club is not gonna have your back if you suffocate someone.

To quote Mystrys Genevieve in her interview with Luxury Holmes:

Do you cover yourself legally? Is there some kind of release form your clients sign?

No, and that’s something that’s always in the back of your mind. Whether you’re playing professionally or you’re playing at an event—you can play at an event and something can go wrong. It’s not so much inherent in professional versus lifestyle; it’s inherent in the play that you do. That’s why you don’t drink. That’s why you don’t do drugs. That’s why you don’t offer to do something to somebody that you don’t know how to do.

I’ve actually had [clients request services I do not perform]. One of the things I don’t do is full face—strangulations or smothering or anything like that. I do some breath play, where I’m just kind of like holding the nose, but I can see the whole face. I don’t do the latex body suit kind of thing because I’m not trained in that—and I’ll tell somebody that because being safe and not having an accident in my playroom is more important to me than making money.

The money buys my toys, it pays for my clothes, it buys the equipment, but it would never pay if I actually hurt somebody or if I had a medical emergency. I would not be able to look at myself in the mirror. At the end of the day, the money is completely secondary—it’s about having fun, experiencing that variety. Nothing can bring variety into your life like this profession, because you never know what the person on the other end is going to be asking for this time. I’ve been playing for over 13 years now, and after awhile the usual slap and tickle gets a little boring.

Want to read more?  Be sure to check out SexIs this week, for part two of the Mistress Mine interview.

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