Listening to a podcast, I recently found out about a fetish that I truly can not even fathom. This is a fetish for guys who like to be kicked in the balls. Now before anyone gets mad at me for this post, understand I just don’t know how you can get pleasure from this. I am a guy, and I have been kick or hit in the balls before, and it doesn’t feel good at all.
I do understand how fetishes are created sometimes in the human mind. It’s basically a pairing: an item or object with sexual stimulation. So you can take someone with no foot fetish and give them one by using your feet in a sexual manner, like a girl massaging a guy’s dick with her feet. I guess it could be possible to take a guy who hates tits and get him to like them by titty fucking him.
Going off of that idea, the most likely way I can think of a guy having a fetish for being kicked in the balls is if he got caught by someone while he was looking at porn and that person kicked him in the balls. The biggest problem I see with this idea is that I would think being kicked in the balls when you have an erection would really hurt like a mother fucker. Especially considering that guys have gone to the hospital for their dicks getting broken from sex. If it can happen during sex, wouldn’t you think it could happen if it were kicked.
An interesting thing that I learned about this fetish is that when you watch videos of guys that supposedly have this fetish they usually wear a cup while being kicked in the balls. But if you get on xhamster and do a search for “ball kicking 01”, you will find a guy and his wife who have this dom come over so this dom can kick him in the balls. He is wearing underwear for this so you can figure he is wearing a cup. But eventually he takes off his undies and reveals he’s not wearing a cup and he proceeds to let this woman kick him in the balls. It is very evident that it hurts because he is flinching and he keeps covering up and he is shaking like crazy. This is not a very short video considering what this guy is going through. I seem to recall it being around 20 to 30 minutes in length.
Here is one of the reasons I really don’t get this fetish. I know that is it possible to kill a guy from kicking him in the balls. You can have a guy spitting blood from kicking him in the balls. I would hate to think that a guy who likes this would want kids, because I think after this being done kids would be out of the question. That would be interesting to be the doc when this guy comes in asking “Why can’t I get my wife pregnant?” The doc’s reply, “Ummmm… probably because your balls are shattered.” would be a moment to remember forever. But god damn, I would not want to see the results.
I don’t expect there are many of you out there. But if anyone on this site reads this and has this fetish, I would really like to know what happened in your life to give this kind of desire. To me this kind of goes beyond masochistic tendencies. Especially if you’re being kicked in the balls for half an hour. I could understand more a girl wanting to kick a guy in the balls, especially if she was mistreated by guys a lot. And if she is a sadist, she will certainly get pleasure from the pain she causes. But when you’re in a fetal position from the pain, trying to cover up, and you say you still like being kicked in the balls. That is kind of extreme.
Understand I am not trying to make fun of anyone who has this fetish. I am more trying to understand it, and thinking of that pain makes it really hard to wrap my head around. So if any of you like this and can explain how you developed this fetish, It would be really helpful. Before you think I am being judgmental, I’m pretty sure if someone said they had a desire to fuck a porcupine you would think they were nuts because pulling quills out of your crotch wouldn’t be very fun. Especially if it were one of those African ones with quills that are a foot long or longer.
Rowan
Hi.
There’s more to an act of ball kicking than just pain. Imagine a consensual Dom/sub sexual relationship, these relationships aren’t just based on inflicting physical pain and nothing else.
The assertion of power of one person over another can be incredibly sexy; someone being kicked in the balls or kicking someone in the balls explores those ideas of power, or of dominance and control.
Someone might be overcome with desire for the person who is completely dominating them, hurting them or behaving in a superior manner to them – literally standing over them.
This might be because while they are being dominated they have absolutely no say in what’s happening, but the circumstances are controlled and safe. They can completely lose their inhibitions and are told what to do, a rare time in their day/week/month when they don’t have to think about what to do next and don’t have to plan or “be responsible” for what happens.
A person relinquishes themselves to their lover/their dom/the professional woman who comes ’round to kick him in the balls, in an act of total trust, quite a beautiful thing in a way. Also quite an attractive prospect in a world full of constant demands and pressures to “be the perfect” boss/mother/teacher etc.
Fantasies of being “dis-respected” or treated badly by women (or men) are quite common. Acting out these roles help people explore parts of themselves they can’t express in every day life. That’s why role-play is fun! and the types of role plays are literally endless. That’s why professional Dominatrices exist. Ever heard of a Jew who had a Nazi fantasy? It might be a way for someone to deal with upsetting or distressing realities in a safe and consensual environment, exorcising normally buried demons.
I’m not suggesting this is the case with ball kicking, but its just an example of sexual behaviour that might seem out of the ordinary.
These kinds of fantasies must come from an early age, while the brain is still developing, not just at the point of going through puberty. Anything absorbed unconsciously can be turned into something “kinky”. There are some things people find sexually arousing but they have no real idea why. How about watching some dodgy sci-fi as a kid about a world run by women, in which they dominate men, (however subtly/explicity). Later on in life you develope a penchant for dominant women, because this is something you saw at a pivotal moment in your development but might not consciously remember.
Throughout most of our lives we are bombarded with images of what we’re supposed to think is sexy and this is different from generation to generation and culture to culture. But as well as this, peoples own unique experiences have to come into play, meaning your imagination is the limit.
Also, in heightened sexual situations when someone is very aroused, the level of pain that can be received is higher than it would usually be, I don’t know the science behind that, but I guess my point is that games of this nature aren’t just purely based on pain, the brain is also a very powerful sexual organ.
P.S I’m not an expert, I hope I don’t sound opinionated, these are just my thoughts on the questions you asked in your article.
DeadIzzy
I took a psych class where the teacher talked about how you can give a child a fetish for shoes by showign them pictures of shoes and then erotic or nude pictures of women (unless they’re gay hehehe)So you’re pairing sexual desire with the object. I got the impression this could be done before puberty even.
I am not taking it as you being opinionated. I don’t know what others will say. I once posted a theory on here and asked for feed back and one person chose to pick a fight and call me a biggit instead of seeing what I was saying as a theory.
Have you seen the video I mentioned in this post?
Thanks for your feedback by the way.
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