Bondage is something I’ve been dabbling in for some time, and with the plethora of knowledge and “how to’s” out there, it’s quite easy to get started. I recently picked up one of the books by the Two Knotty Boys and some bondage rope, to start exploring different ties and such on my own. Having been involved in the...
read moreBullying is a growing problem here in the United States. There are more and more cases of bullying coming to light, and children suffering from it, some even taking their lives because of it. It’s sad to see so many young lives extinguished because of a lack of understanding and acceptance from those around them. Bullying can...
read moreI enrolled in a course in human sexual behavior, mostly because I wanted a buffer class for the semester since I’m taking some rather hard classes. Senior year in college sucks, since you’ve taken all the easy stuff in the beginning. I went to my first class and we discussed the syllabus and what the class expectations were...
read moreBondage, as defined by www.dictionary.com, has two definitions. The first definition that pops up is “slavery or involuntary servitude; serfdom.” The second definition is “the state of being bound by, or subjected to, some external power or control.” Many people associate bondage with BDSM, and while bondage is a large ...
read moreWhen I first became sexually active I hated giving oral sex to a man. I absolutely abhorred the thought of putting a man’s penis into my mouth and sucking it until he ejaculated. It grossed me out to no end to think of the sperm that were alive at the time of release swimming around in my mouth and down my throat. I was also...
read moreLiving with PCOS has been a challenge over the past two years. What is PCOS you ask? PCOS is an acronym for Poly Cystic Ovarian Syndrome. What this means is that I do not ovulate properly and that, in my case, I need more than the normal amount of estrogen pumped into my body. I need the added estrogen to counteract the copious...
read moreI used to be the other woman, but I decided that life is not for me. Living life as a girlfriend to a married man who obtained another girlfriend as well during our relationship was not for me. There were many factors that played into me deciding that polyamory is not for me, though it is for some. Honestly, living the way I did...
read moreComing out to anyone in your family about activities you participate in that aren’t considered “normal” by most society is rather hard and difficult. Usually when the phrase “coming out” is used, it generally associates a person as coming out as either gay or bisexual. Not in my case. Last month I did something that I...
read moreI used to be highly active in the local BDSM scene, but in recent months I have realized that it honestly isn’t worth my time or energy. Why do I feel this way? Several reasons, really, but from my experiences that I will tell you about I have realized that I do not fit in with a community that is supposed to be open minded and...
read moreBeing at the ripe age of 21, I have experienced quite a bit so far in my life. One of my most remarkable experiences that I have had in the past year, though, has been the experience of going to a swinger’s club here in the city. I grew up living under a rock for the most part and thought that these kind of places only existed...
read moreThey say I’m crazy, but what exactly is normal? I will preface this article by stating that I play and get my jollies off of activities that most people would either turn their nose up at or just simply look the other way from. I am a very sensual woman and I enjoy the release I gain from sensual play. Recently I was...
read more“Don’t put your hand there, please.” “You like this. Now hush.” When does the line between play and sexual assault end? Where does it end? There really isn’t a definitive answer, but you know yourself and your boundaries. Knowing those things about yourself and what you accept from others should be enough...
read moreBDSM is a part of me. Yes, most of the activities that I partake in only happen in certain instances and at certain times, but for the most part BDSM is an essential part of me. I have known from a very early age that I was different than the other kids. I was five years old, watching Aladdin, and finding myself get those little...
read moreExploring sex at a young age is often times difficult. Young folks, like me, often have the barrier of living with family and working around them. I grew up in a sheltered home. I was involved with the chastity club in my high school days and I never did anything to get into trouble. I was always obeying my parents and doing as...
read moreSurrender is defined by our friends at www.dictionary.com as such: to give oneself up, as into the power of another; submit or yield. Surrender can be such a beautiful experience. Think about it for a moment. How often do you find yourself pondering how it would feel to be taken without struggle? To be overpowered by...
read moreUsually when people think of the “other woman” a man has in his life, it is usually a negative idea or thought. The other woman usually is a secret and just around to fulfill fantasies and sexual favors that the wife or girlfriend may not do on the regular basis. Usually the other woman is just a flittering thought and not a...
read moreWhat exactly is masochism? As defined by our friends at Dictionary.com, masochism is gratification gained from pain, deprivation, degradation, etc., inflicted or imposed on oneself, either as a result of one’s own actions or the actions of others, esp. the tendency to seek this form of gratification. I don’t particularly...
read moreEvery relationship, whether vanilla or otherwise, has a certain dynamic. The relationships of the 1950’s where the man is the traditional head of household and the woman is the stay at home June Cleaver is somewhat dead. Relationships have evolved greatly since then and this day and age they astound me. I have always aspired to...
read more“Hey, who’s that girl over there? Do you see her? The chubby one with the big tits.” For years all I would hear were phrases like the above and I would want to hide in a hole. In today’s society body image is almost an obsession. There are photos of teeny tiny models plastered all over the internet, magazines,...
read moreby TheVieuxCarre Do you have to be cunning for cunnilingus? For the longest time, I would log in to various sites and see that people were into cunnilingus. I was turned off when I would read said fetish because I was under the impression that cunnilingus had something to do with genital torture. I’m sorry. No...
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