So ladies, what do you like? Do you like it rubbed, pressed, suckled, kissed, blown on, or bitten? Or are you one of the women who can’t stand to have it touched at all? I’m talking about the female clitoris, of course, and we all like it different ways. Unfortunately, our partners (especially men) don’t always know which way we like it right off the bat.

The female clitoris can be found at the top middle (12:00) region of the vulva. It is covered either somewhat, or fully by the clitoral hood. The clitoral hood is a protective flap of skin that protects the sensitive “Glans clitoris” or the tip of the clitoris. Just like the Glans of a male’s penis, the Glans of the clitoris is also very sensitive. Unlike a man’s penis, the clitoris was designed solely for female pleasure. As a matter of fact, only 30% of women can orgasm without clitoral stimulation. That’s why it is so important to become familiar with the clitoris.

The clitoris is packed with more than 8,000 nerve endings… WOW! Can you believe that? So you can imagine it’s quite sensitive – Better yet, you know it’s VERY sensitive. A lot of the times it’s too sensitive to touch if you don’t do it correctly. A good way to get around that is to make sure your gal is very aroused before going in for a lick.

Just as the penis becomes erect with increased blood flow, the clitoris does the same. Why? The clitoris is what the penis used to be! In utero, we all started out as girls until boys’ bodies matured, turning their clitoris into a penis.

Tip #1: Spend a lot of time on everywhere but the clitoris, in order to correctly stimulate the clitoris. Make sure your female is warmed up and ready for the intense pleasure you are (hopefully) about to give her!

This may be something not all women even know; usually, the entire clitoris isn’t sensitive. Sometimes only 25% of the clitoris is sensitive, and sometimes only 75% of the clitoris is sensitive, and it ranges from female to female. This is all determined during development in the womb, and it is completely normal.

Tip #2: Find out which portion of your gal’s clitoris is most sensitive in order to bring her to an orgasm. If she doesn’t know, slowly work your tongue in circles and ask her to tell you when you hit that particular spot.

The visible area of the clitoris (the glans, which looks like a pea) is not the only region that is sensitive. Did you know the clitoris actually extends deep underneath the skin of the vulva, even where you cannot see it? It extends in a wish-bone shape, consisting of the Corpus cavernosum and the Crus clitoris, as shown below.

So what does all this jibber jabber mean? It means that there are other areas and other ways to stimulate the clitoris, than just licking, sucking, or rubbing the Glans clitoris itself. Rubbing the areas around the inner labia works very well – and you can add plenty of pressures as these areas are usually harder to stimulate. But once stimulated, it can greatly increase the pleasure felt on the Glans clitoris, and even other areas of the vagina.

Tip #3: Don’t forget about the rest of the clitoris, hidden underneath the skin of the inner vulva.

Like I mentioned above, some women just can’t stand to have their clitoris directly stimulated in any way. Why? They are probably women with a rather large sensitive portions (75% and up). So you may be wondering, “How the hell do I give her a good fix if I can’t even touch it?!”. Well, DON’T touch it… but touch everything else. Some women enjoy grinding up against the legs of their partners, rocking back and forth against a chair, or using their knuckles to apply pressure and rub their outer labia.

All of the masturbation methods above add slight, indirect, but powerful stimulation to the clitoris. As they rub or apply pressure to their outer labia, the labia gently rub against the clitoris making for an explosive orgasm.

Tip #4: Take the “pressure” off her hands and do it yourself. Using your knuckles, apply firm but somewhat gentle pressure to their vulva without going between the outer labia. If the female has very short, open labia, try rubbing the upper vulva (where the pubic hair grows). Ask your partner if she’d like you to go harder, move faster. Try up and down movements, side-to-side movements, or whatever she’d like. If this doesn’t work, you can always let her grind against your thigh… which is always pretty sexy to watch!

Your girl may say something like “It doesn’t hurt when I do it… Just when you do it”. A statement like that may leave you puzzled, wondering what you’re doing wrong. If you’re a man, it could be those rough “man hands”. It might be time for a manicure (minus the nail polish!) – a little trimming of the nails (not biting, which leaves some painfully jagged edges) and some baby soft hands makes for a pain-free night of pleasure. You may also want to watch the way she pleases herself, because you could be doing it wrong.

Tip #5 & 6 : Get rid of those man hands! Swallow your pride and get your ass down to the nearest salon. Get those nails clipped short, filed to perfection, and remove the painful calluses from your hands before you kill someone with those things! (And don’t forget the lotion!) Then, when you get home, watch the way she pleases herself, and then give it a try on your own. Practice makes for perfection.

Are you well lubricated when you stimulate her? Whether it’s with your tongue, or with your hands, lubrication is a must. If it’s too dry, there’s too much drag which can be extremely painful and may leave the poor girl limping the next day in pain. There are several oral sex lubricants to choose from, so you don’t have that awful aftertaste in your mouth that you might get from a regular sex lubricant. However, if you are using your hands, you might want to consider a very thick, slippery lubricant. One that I have found helpful for the occasion is Maximus.

Tip #7: Make sure you are lubricated at all times!

So maybe she just isn’t sensitive. She’s not enjoying ANYTHING you do. Not because it hurts, or feels uncomfortable… because she simply can’t feel a damn thing. Well, before you give up and move on to the G-Spot, you can always try sexual enhancing gels/ lubricants. There’s a wide variety to choose from on EdenFantasys and you’re bound to find the one for you. These gels contain all sorts of magical potions and ingredients to help make the clitoris more sensitive.

Tip #8: If she can’t feel anything, try an enhancing gel or lubricant designed specifically for females or the clitoris.

There’s no way around it – the clitoris is hands down, the most hard-to-please area of the female body. It’s what makes the female body so sophisticated! Nevertheless, don’t give up! Follow these tips and you’re bound to find out just what it is that makes her toes curl! Good luck!

Anal Sex – Something that is talked about often when it comes to sexual play, but also something that is shunned by many due to fear and confusion. People often wonder whether anal sex is safe, and if it is, how to go about trying it for the first time. Here is my list of advice on proper anal sex, and how to practice this special pleasure safely and smartly.

1. Taking a bowel movement ahead of time. This is one of the most important things, as many people find that feces is often found leaking out or remaining on the end of their penises, fingers, and sex toys after play. This is completely normal, not something to be frowned upon, and can be avoided by making sure to have a good bowel movement some time that day.

Well, how do I know if I had a “good” bowel movement? A good bowel movement can be characterized by getting rid of a lot of feces. If you only got rid of little clumps, trying drinking some water and ingesting some fiber. It sounds a little icky to think about, but it is very important. Aside from worrying about anal sex, good bowel movements are important.

This will leave less feces behind inside of you, and you will have less reason to worry about remaining feces after, or during, anal play. This is a particularly easy step to take and probably the easiest on this entire list of tips.

2. Anal douching. Now, not all people believe that anal douching is healthy, or even appropriate, in order to have successful anal play. However, no studies have shown anal douching to be dangerous. Anal douching gets rid of any “leftovers” inside of your rectum, making for an extremely clean anal play session.

Anal douching kits can be found on EdenFantasys.com, so you don’t have to worry about looking far and wide. The great thing about the kits on EdenFantasys.com is that most are reusable and can last you a long time, rather than others that are throw-away. If you don’t have the cash to buy one from EdenFantasys, you can always buy a vaginal douching kit from the grocery store and use it anally. Just be sure to use warm water in place of the soapy liquids that often come with those kits.

The ingredients in those kits are sometimes harmful, so read the label carefully and ask your pharmacist if you have any questions. If it’s bad for your vagina, it’s most likely bad for your anus, as well. Many people prefer using these kits because the douching liquid is scented and makes your bum smell better. A big part of the ew-factor of anal play is the smell, so this is something to think about, and it is your own personal choice.

You are going to want to douche about an hour to an hour and a half ahead of time. So, if you plan to have anal sex, douche before you take a shower. Some people prefer to do this over the toilet, but I personally find it easiest in the shower since there is a possibility of making a mess on the floor.

3. Relaxation. Many people who complain about anal sex, complain that the thought or feeling of anal sex bothers them, and that they cannot relax enough to have a successful anal play session. You want to be sure to relax yourself fully before you even consider working your way into the anus, whether it is with a partner or not.

If you are the type of person who can relax only when music is playing, put on your favorite playlist in the background, and focus on the music while your partner does the playing. Dim the lights to avoid distractions, light a few candles with therapeutic aromas to relax your senses, and close your eyes and breathe in and out deeply.

This may sound a lot like what you hear in a psychiatrist’s office, but it’s true, and it really works. Relaxing the way you normally would outside of the bedroom is key. You will find that over time you develop different methods, and eventually you will find one that works for you.

My favorite method is massage. I dim the lights, light candles around my bedroom, and have my husband start out massaging my G-Spot with his fingers. That always relaxes me and gets me somewhat drowsy, yet at the same time extremely turned on and relaxed. He starts to use his other hand to massage my perineum and when he feels my vaginal muscles relaxed, he inserts a finger into my anus and massages the inside as well. That is just my personal warm up, but it works every time. Once we have successfully done that, we pull out the anal toys and begin our anal play session. Pain and worry free!

4. Mess control. There is always a possibility for a mess. Whether it be feces leaking during play, smelly lubricant dripping onto the carpet, or possibly blood (for those who don’t follow my next step). The best thing to do is to lay down a sheet or blanket on top of the area you plan to have anal play on. You want to really eliminate having to wash your entire set of sheets and blankets after sex, so this is an important step.

Don’t go sparingly with the lubricant. When it comes to anal sex, you have to really remember how delicate the anal tissue is. Even glass toys, as slippery as they are on their own, could easily tear up the anus without proper lubrication.

Load it up, and lather it on when it comes to using lubricant. You want to use a thick lubricant that is long lasting. My #1 recommended lubricant for anal sex would be Maximus. It’s thick, water based, prevents the spread of STD’s and germs, and absorbs/washes off easily. You don’t have to worry about stains, and your bum will feel good as new the next day.

5. Trim your fingernails. If you plan on having anal play using the hands, rather than the penis or sex toys, make sure that your finger nails are trimmed, filed, and buffed as short as you can. Like I said, the anus is delicate and the slightest jagged edge can put a person in tons of pain.

Don’t start out too big. If it’s someone’s first time with anal play, go for anal fingering or use a small anal plug/probe. You have to remember that a person still has to get used to feeling something large and unusual inside of them. Some plugs even come in sets of small, medium and large. You can work your way up slowly until the person feels comfortable with inserting a penis or dildo inside of themselves.

6. Use lubricated condoms, and always use new condoms when switching back and forth between partners, or from vaginal to anal. The spread of anal germs is very serious and one of the number one easiest ways to spread an STD. Mixing anal fluid with vaginal fluid is also an easy way to start a serious bacterial infection for a female. So be smart, use the correct type of condoms, and don’t avoid using a condom. It is, of course, a personal choice. However, for safety purposes, please contemplate the risks.

7. Practice on your own first. Whether you use your finger, a small plug, or anal probe, practice by yourself first, so you can be comfortable trying anal play on your own. Remember to still use lubricant, douche, and use the restroom before hand. Practice relaxation so that you can see what works for you. Chances are, if you don’t like having anal play on your own, you won’t like it with a partner.

I hope these tips can be of some help for you, and always be sure to be safe. Do your research and be prepared. Have a good lubricant, condoms, anal douche, etc. on standby. Forgetting one of these steps can result in an unpleasant and painful experience that can lead to you missing out on one of the most pleasureful sexual activities out there!

“Well, I was thinking we could watch a movie…?” She asked, shyly, but persistent. There was no way I could really say no to her. She stood there in a towel, covering up as the apartment started to get cold from the air conditioning. I could see her hardened nipples through her towel, and it was driving me crazy.

“Of course we can. What kind of movie do you want to watch? Love story, comedy, thriller…?” She cut me off right there.

“I was thinking we could watch this little “love story,” Kristen said with a smirk on her face as she dropped her towel, pulling out a porno from her purse. The movie was about two girls realizing they had fallen in love with one another. Seemed a bit familiar?

After the movie started, she began to slip her fingers inside of me, one by one. Five minutes passed, and she had relaxed me enough to fit her entire fist in my pussy. It was my first time, and I loved it. She slowly moved her fist inside me, taking care not to hurt me. It did hurt a little, but the pleasure overpowered the pain. I thought to myself Kristen really is something else… No one would have ever been so brave… This was the most sexual passion I had ever experienced in my life.

I rolled over and got a few of my toys. The double headed dildo was my first choice, my glass fist was the second, and third was my large vibrating anal plug. As I laid each one on the bed, Kristen’s eyes started to sparkle. I could tell she was excited, but she didn’t say a word. I wondered what she was thinking. We looked back and forth from each other to the television, getting wetter and wetter each second.

I nudged her, and she knew just what to do. Getting in doggy-style position, Kristen laid her head on a pillow with her ass toward me, begging to be penetrated. I squirted a little lubricant on her, and slowly fingered it into her ass to get her ready for the plug. She moaned with pleasure, and I felt her anal muscles squeeze against my fingers.

I finally inserted the plug and turned it on. Kristen moaned with pleasure as I rubbed my pussy against the end of the anal vibe that was sticking out of her ass. I reached around her with my hands and started to cup and massage her breasts. After a while, she laid down, plug still in place, and she was ready for me to penetrate her in other ways. I pulled out the glass fist, and spread open her legs. I had never used the glass fist before.

As I spread Kristen’s legs open, I saw her pussy glistening from all the wetness. There was no need for lubricant because she was already wet enough. I took the cold glass fist and slowly pushed it inside of her. She started to moan as I rotated it inside of her. I had never seen her so excited and horny in my life.

I pushed and pushed, sliding the fist around and around in her wet pussy until she finally said “I’m gonna cum, I’m gonna cum!”. Finally, she burst out in a screaming moan. Her nipples instantly hardened, and her breathing became long and deep. I knew she had had the orgasm of her life.

“Stefanie, let’s use the double headed dildo now.” She looked at the TV, where the two girls were ass to ass, fucking each other with a double headed dildo. “Let’s do it just like that.” I got in position, as she inserted the dildo into my pussy. It was so thick and the veins felt so realistic inside of me. I would have thought it was a man, but I wanted nothing but the girl next to me.

Kristen inserted the other end into herself, and she started to move, thrusting against me. We pushed and pushed, ass to ass. Both of us were moaning so loud that the people next door were banging on the wall. We didn’t care a bit.

Kristen stopped, and told me to roll over. She pulled out a mini vibe and grabbed the glass fist. She didn’t give me any warning, and started to thrust and thrust the glass fist into me over and over. I screamed and moaned with pleasure, and I was right on the tip of an orgasm. “Make me cum!” And she did, long and hard.

We both started to kiss, but we were so tired that we had fallen asleep somewhere in the midst of it all. The last thing I remember was telling Kristen how much I had missed her. She was no longer just a stranger in my shower – she was my lover.

We’ve all done it – We’ve bought a “Jelly” toy. Many people are against the use of Jelly toys, as they are highly porous and can contain unsafe materials. However, they are some of the most pleasurable toys, and we have found ways around those risks. The problem is, not everyone knows how to avoid the risks that Jelly toys impose, and not everyone knows how to care for their toys so that they have the longest life span possible. Here is a list of my best tips for the care of Jelly toys, please enjoy!

1. Know what you are buying. When on Edenfantasys.com, you can tell if harmful components may or may not be in your Jelly toy’s material. This can be found under the section called “Safety Features”. If there is no “Safety Features” section, be cautious. Your toy may contain phthalates or other harmful materials.

2. When you first receive your toy it may be very hard not to immediately jam that baby inside of you, however, these toys need to be washed and dried properly before you use them. You want to wash your toys with hot water and a toy cleaner that is specifically compatible with Jelly toys. EdenFantasys is very good at listing what their toy cleaners are compatible with, so you won’t have a lot of trouble finding the right cleaner for you. Toy cleaners come in sprays, soaps, and even wipes – so you have a lot to choose from.

When you’re done washing your toy thoroughly for the first time, you have to let it fully dry out in the open for about an hour. Since your toy is porous, it has absorbed the hot/warm water, along with the cleaner, which needs to dry up and hopefully evaporate as much as possible. Let your jelly toy sit out next to an open window, a fan, or you can even blow dry your toy with COLD air (and COLD air only!)

3. Using your Jelly toy seems so easy. You just shove that thing in your pussy or bum and you’re ready to rock, right? Not so fast. All insertable Jelly toys should be used with condoms. It seems like a serious boner kill to have to do this, but you can’t always be sure that your Jelly toy is free of harmful materials, or be sure that it hasn’t absorbed harmful materials in the time being. I personally cover all my jelly toys with condoms, even the ones that are not inserted, such as clitoral vibes with jelly tips or sleeves.

4. If you have used a Jelly toy for anal stimulation, that toy should be marked as an ANAL-ONLY toy for the rest of your time owning it. Even if you used a condom, there is a small chance the condom ripped or didn’t cover enough area to fully protect the material from absorbing your anal “juices”, which can highly infect the vagina, or your partner’s anus.

5. Avoid sharing Jelly toys. A lot of people will read this and continue to do it anyway, but sharing Jelly toys is something highly not recommended, or safe in any way. Your bodily fluids can be transferred to your partner, even with a condom, and can cause yeast infections, urinary tract infections, and can easily spread STD’s and other infections. This happens especially with old toys that have picked up a lot of bodily fluid (which basically sits inside of the toy and rots).

If you insist on sharing a toy, follow my tip about using a condom and practice that religiously. I prefer to use magnums because they cover my entire Jelly toys (usually). If you find that the condom will not stay attached, try using a cock ring to hold it in place. Use a softer cock ring so that the condom does not rip.

6. Washing Jelly toys is mandatory to keep safe. Even if you used a condom, and your Jelly toy seems virtually spotless, you still need to clean the toy as shown in #1. Your bodily fluids can spread without you knowing, and even drip down mixed with lubricants. What you think is “only lube” may really be lube and anal or vaginal fluid.

7. Storing Jelly toys is a little complicated. You cannot store Jelly toys with other toys. In many cases, Jelly toys have reacted chemically with other types of toy materials and have actually melted them or changed their colors. This isn’t a good sign, and can even mean that your Jelly toy is absorbing a harmful material from other types of rubbers, etc. NOTE: Jelly toys should not be stored with other Jelly toys. The same thing can happen between two toys of the same material. Manufacturer’s materials can be slightly different in chemical components.

You must also make sure your toy can breathe wherever it is stored. This means you shouldn’t store your toys in plastic Ziploc baggies, or tightly closed plastic cases. A great idea is to take a shoe box, plastic storage box, etc. and drill several wide holes into it. This way you can somewhat discreetly store your toy without risking your toy emitting chemical fumes or losing it’s color.

Jelly toys can lose color over time. This doesn’t mean that your toy is broken or wearing away, but it does mean your toy won’t be as “pretty”. That’s just something you have to deal with, unfortunately and there isn’t much you can do about it, except store it separately and hope it doesn’t lose too much color. This usually happens in splotches, and not the entire toy will lose color at once.

Be careful not to bend or squish your Jelly toys during storage, as they easily dent and can even tear under certain circumstances. The Jelly material has potential to become very weak over time, making your toy more and more susceptible to damage. Make sure your toy has room to roll around, as well as breathe.

8. Avoid using your toys with colored lubricants (especially those that are not compatible with Jelly), and do not use your Jelly toys uncovered anally or when you are on your menstrual period. Your toy will not only absorb the nasty colors of blood and/or feces, but it will also absorb those fluids. This means your toy will be unsanitary and discolored.

9. Come to the realization that all good things come to an end. There will be a time when it is necessary to dispose of your Jelly toy. Most Jelly toys have a lifespan of only a few months before they begin to lose color, absorb other colors, wear away, etc. Signs of a Jelly toy that is ready to be laid to rest would be:

• Discoloration of any kind. If your toy is losing color, it might just be losing the color from being washed or left in sunlight (which you do not want to do). However, if your toy is absorbing colors (brown, red, yellow, etc.) then it’s time to trash it immediately.

• If your Jelly toy is leaving tons of residue behind after play (which means you are not using a condom!) or on your hands after washes, your toy is long past its due date for death. It may not necessarily leave visible residue, but it may feel weaker than usual or more squishy.

• Can you see any dents or cracks on your toy? This also means your toy is weakening and aging.

• If your Jelly toy has gained any smell other than the natural “Jelly” rubber smell, it has obviously come in contact with unsanitary fluids and needs to be thrown away immediately.

• If your Jelly toy is beginning to get dark spots (brownish, greenish, blackish) then you have either done something wrong or kept your toy for too long. Those spots can actually be mold, believe it or not. Definitely not something you want inside of you.

If you follow the above steps you can use Jelly toys safely, and prolong their lifespan. It is very important to follow each rule, and follow it to the “T”. Jelly toys are nothing to mess with! Happy masturbation!

Here’s Part 1

He untied my scarf slowly, “Did you like the thrill, Stefanie?” Sorry if I scared you. That’s always been a fantasy of mine.

“What is a fantasy of yours?” I asked – I didn’t understand quite what he meant.

He cleared his throat, as he caught his breath, and all I could think about was getting more of him. I hadn’t climaxed yet, and neither had he. “To take control of a girl during sex while wearing a scary costume. To make her think I was a stranger, but still want me. I’m surprised you actually wanted me. You’re so beautiful and I’m nothing compared to you. You could have any guy you wanted.”

“You could have any girl you wanted if you showed them that cock,” I said jokingly, but very truthful, as he is huge. “Nonetheless, you are a very handsome guy. Don’t say that. However, please tell me you will take me home and give me a good fucking tonight. Neither of us came and I think we both need it.”

Just as I had before, he put his hand in mine, and I led him down the block to my apartment. This time his manner was more gentle. I like a bit of kink every now and then, but I like to end off things a little less kinky and more romantically, with a little spanking here and there. I could already tell he was just like me by the way his voice softened.

The next 10 minutes home was filled with conversation about what we had just done. Neither of us could believe that we actually lived our fantasies in one night – together. I couldn’t help but stare at his crotch, where his cock was still bulging from his erection. I wondered what he was thinking about that was keeping him so erect. Is he thinking about what we just did? Is it the fact that he thinks I’m beautiful? Questions ran through my head, and I was excited to know that someone wanted me just as much as I wanted them.

We arrived at my apartment, and he held my book bag and scarf as I unlocked the door. We walked inside, and I asked him to make himself at home while I freshened up. “I’ll be honest, I’m quite sweaty from all that, and I’d rather smell good while we finish this whole thing. Feel free to look around, watch some TV, or grab a bite to eat. I won’t be too long.”

I walked to my bedroom and lit a few candles. The place smelled like absolutely nothing, and I love to smell my cinnamon vanilla candle while I’m having sex. I made the bed nicely, and picked up a pair of panties and my bra of the floor and threw them in the hamper. I organized my books, closed the curtains, and attempted to hide my large collection of sex toys so that I didn’t come off as a freak – but then again, we both just had sex with someone we hardly knew in a park.

I stepped into the restroom and the lights were already on. I must have forgotten to turn them off this morning. I can’t keep doing that, my bill is too high. I slipped out of my clothes, examining the scratches and bites all over my body. It was making me wet all over again to think about everything Tyler had done to me in the park. I realized that I had taken so long cleaning and staring at myself that Tyler might have fallen asleep or gotten bored and left, so I opened the shower curtains and turned the water on.

“Boo!” A completely different voice shouted. Okay, who the hell is it now and how did they get in my damn apartment? “Stefanie, it’s me! Kristen!” I looked up to see Kristen’s beautiful body, entirely naked except for a pair of devil horns, a sequin-covered mask, and two red sparkly pasties. She was shivering in my shower, and I wondered how long she had been waiting. Kristen was my old roommate from the last year. She slept over from time to time, and we made out occasionally when we were drunk, but she was gone this entire semester in Florida. I had no idea she was coming home.

Kristen and I talked about having sex a few times. She was lesbian, and I was simply curious. I didn’t mind the idea of sex with a woman, but I could never date one, and I was afraid she would want that even though she assured me she didn’t. She looked hotter than ever, and I wasn’t sure what to do.

I thought quietly myself, but before I knew it she was stroking my neck and had her soft hands all over my pussy. She moved her fingers up and down my slit slowly, rubbing my clit and tracing the entrance to my vagina. I was dying for her to finger me, but she just kept teasing. I hope Tyler doesn’t freak out when he finds out she’s here.

“I have a surprise for you, Stefanie,” Kristen said as she held up a double dong made of glass that I had wanted for over a year. I talked about buying it all the time, but couldn’t afford the price of $125. “It’s for you, sweetie. Would you like to use it with me tonight?”

I smiled as I massaged her breasts up against the wall of the shower “Of course I would. But you have to wait until a friend leaves. He’s right outside in the living room.” I said, hoping she wouldn’t be turned off.

“Actually girls, I’m right here,” Tyler said, staring at us. I didn’t even hear him walk in! “You didn’t tell me it was going to be a party, Stefanie, but you can count me in. Are you girls ready for the night of your life?”

We both nodded as he took off his clothes and stepped into the shower with us. Both Kristen and I were getting aroused, and her big pink clit started to peek out from her labia as she watched Tyler wash me down with body wash. “You’re next,” he said to Kristen, as he held one of her perfect breasts in his hands. I was in complete heaven in that shower, and I couldn’t imagine how amazing the rest of the night would be.

I watched Tyler wash Kristen off, removing one pastie at a time to reveal her hard pink nipples that were begging to be suckled. He got behind her and began massaging her breasts as I spread her legs and began to get my first taste of pussy. It was natural, and tasted a little different from mine. More salty, but I craved more and more of her. I sucked her clit and she screamed harder, so I began to suck more and more of her pussy into my mouth until she just couldn’t take it.

I turned the shower off to let everyone know that it was time to go to the bedroom. We failed to even dry off, for we were so excited to explore one another. Kristen was the first to get laid down on the bed, and surprisingly I was the one to do it. I thought I’d let Tyler have a show before we fucked him.

I laid her head against the headboard on a pillow, and made sure she was relaxed and ready to play. I kissed her lips and sucked on her tongue, as I fingered her clit. Kristen moaned and squirmed, begging me for more head. I slowly kissed her down her face, onto her neck, across her chest – making sure to spend plenty of time sucking and caressing each breast – and down her belly until I reached her delicious pussy. I inserted the dildo and slowly thrusted as I licked Kristen’s clit.

After a few minutes, I laid myself back and put the other end of the dildo into my own pussy, and we started to fuck one another slowly, taking care not to go too hard. Unfortunately, slowly and softly wasn’t good enough, so we started to thrust hard until it hurt – but it hurt so good. Meanwhile, Tyler watched, pulling at the skin on his cock and ready to get in the action.

Tyler started off somewhat straddling us both, putting his cock in my face for me to suck while he ate Kristen’s pussy, satisfying her need for more head. I couldn’t get enough of the taste of Tyler’s salty precum as he pushed his cock into my mouth, deeper and deeper, over and over. Both Kristen and I moaned in ecstasy.

After that, Kristen laid Tyler down and started to ride his cock. As she rode him like a horse, I put my thighs around his head so he could eat my pussy for a while. I clenched on to the headboard because his tongue movements were so fast and intense that I feared I would squirt all over his face. Not a thought went through my mind, just pleasure through my body.

Kristen and I switched places, and I rode Tyler so hard that my pussy started to swell, and I felt my cunt get ready to squirt. “I’m getting close; I’m gonna cum,” Tyler said as I was grinding my clit against him as hard as I could in hopes to orgasm as I squirted. Kristen had already cum several times from the amazing head Tyler was giving her.

Not even five minutes later, Tyler and I both let out deep breaths as we neared climax. I let out a loud moan, and he spanked my ass as I squirted and came all over his cock. I could feel his hot white cum filling my pussy and running back down his cock. Kristen was behind me now massaging my breasts and pushing my new dildo in and out of my tight asshole. It was the most pleasureful orgasm I had ever had in my life.

Tired and worn out, Tyler dressed and kissed us both. “I’m gonna head out now. Thank you so much for tonight, ladies. I’ve never had anything as wonderful as this. I’ll never forget it.” We jokingly rubbed his sore cock and smacked his butt on the way out the door.

“It’s just you and me now, Kristen. Are you ready for bed?” I asked. She seemed tired, and both of us were still catching our breath.

“Not just yet, darling. Will you stay up with me a while?” Kristen asked sheepishly.

“Of course I will. So tell me, babe. What have you got planned now?”

It was a dark night in October; the 30th to be exact. Walking home from campus to my apartment couldn’t have been any more frightening. The fog was setting in, and it was hard to see past five feet in front of you. Nonetheless, I knew my way home well, as I had walked it each day for two years. This night was far different than many nights, because it was the first year that kids on campus were encouraged to dress up for the first annual costume contest.

All around me were ghosts and ghouls, vampires and witches. Just about any horrific monster you could imagine was walking around you, popping out behind the fog. My heart was beating so hard in my chest that I thought it would explode. Nonetheless, I hurried my way home, for it was a half an hour walk in pitch black darkness.

I finally came to the end of Park Blvd., the long road that led to my apartment, when someone tapped on my shoulder. “Hey Stefanie, wanna play?”  the male voice asked in a creepish manner. I knew the voice, I just couldn’t match the face. He almost gave me a heart attack when I turned my head to see him, as he was wearing a costume of a bloody clown with a knife stuck in his skull.

It must be Branden. He’s always playing pranks like this, even when it isn’t Halloween or April Fool’s Day. I began to walk with him and engage in conversation, but somehow Branden kept turning our small talk into erotic conversation. He had his arm around my shoulder as he whispered “Wouldn’t a gorgeous girl like you like a nice thick cock in that wet pussy? I know you’re getting wet Stefanie. I can taste that pussy already.” He took a deep breath as we walked through a layer of fog, “Look, I can fuck you right there on that table. No one comes to this park anyway.”

I can’t lie to you, I was getting a little wet, and the offer was more than inviting in my mind. The thought of a stranger in a scary costume taking control of me had been a secret fantasy of mine since the night I watched my first horror film at a Halloween party two years ago. Of course, I didn’t expect it to be a bloody clown, but it would have to do for now – That is, if this guy is really serious.

“Cut the shit Branden!” I said in a rude voice as I snapped back to reality. Things like this just weren’t normal. I didn’t even know if it was really Branden. It could be a random man; a stalker, or even a murderer.

“Maybe I am Branden, but maybe I’m not. You don’t get to find out until you let me have a piece of that ass. I’ll be nice, and I promise you won’t regret it. I can walk you home if you’re more comfortable with me fucking your brains out at your apartment.”

His offer was becoming too much for me. This was my fantasy – My wet dreams coming true right before my eyes. Take it or leave it, but I know I want it… I thought to myself. I put my hands in his, and he led me away to the table underneath the large oak tree. Thank God no one was around, or we could get in some serious trouble.

I started to realize that this indeed was not Branden by the way he began to talk. His voice was deeper than I had realized, and my mind was going insane trying to figure out who he was… Tyler, Dylan, Joseph, Peter, or maybe Sullivan… I went over each guy I knew in my mind, but it’s almost impossible to place a voice with a face when you talk to so many guys. I was the trainer for the football team that year, so I came across tons of guys each days. But I definitely knew that voice, I just couldn’t figure out who it was yet.

The mystery man put my hands behind my back as he bent me over that wooden table. “Hush, hush, we wouldn’t want anyone to hear you,” he said as he tied my scarf around my face to form a makeshift gag. I was getting more and more excited by the minute, and I couldn’t wait to feel his cock deep inside of my now dripping pussy.

I heard his zipper as he unzipped his pants, and when he pulled them down, his hard cock hit me in the ass as it flung out of his pants. It was so huge, and I could tell because it was almost touching the lower area of my back. I knew I was in for a wild ride out there in the dark, but I was definitely ready to get it on with this bloody clown.

He started to hold his dick and rub the head up and down my wet slit, making sure to smack the head against my clit, which was bulging and hard from all the excitement. I anticipated for him to penetrate me, and made small movements to try and insert his cock myself when it was in place, but he only spanked me when I tried.

“Be a good girl or I might have to hurt you,” he whispered into my ear after he licked slowly up my neck, gripping my ass so hard that his fingernails dug into my skin. I was scared, but excited at the same time. Hurt me motherfucker, hurt me. I want the pain. I wanted to say that out loud, but the scarf was keeping me from talking.

Finally, after what seemed like half an hour of sucking and biting my nipples, spanking my ass, and rubbing his dick up and down my dripping pussy slit, he finally penetrate me – slow and hard. I clenched my teeth as the tip of his cock entered my pussy; just the tip itself was so thick that I felt my tight pussy rip a little. I knew I would be bleeding when all was said and done, but that’s what I wanted.

I took deep breaths through my nostrils as he slowly entered each inch of his huge cock. He struggled to get all the way inside of me because he was just too large. I started to wonder if he was Joseph from Literature class. Everyone always stared at his dick, because even flaccid, it was easily visible through his pants and down his thighs. “Uggghhhhhhh!” I moaned – He was all the way inside of me, pounding against my cervix over and over.

He held my ass, while I gripped the edges of the table, spanking me whenever I made a sound. He started off slow and hard, pounding as deep as he could, and then switched to fast, violent fucking. I felt myself drip down my legs, and I wondered if I was bleeding. He was so large that I was already feeling sore 10 minutes in.

He let go of my ass, and slowly removed his dick from my pussy, still hard and ready for more. I wondered why he was stopping, but when I turned around he had removed his mask. I found out that it was Tyler, the quarterback from the football team. We talked almost every day last semester as I helped heal his broken foot, yet I never would have thought he was a kink…

To be continued…

Now don’t get me wrong, the school girl look looked quite good on me. Boys often called me “Sexy Sarah” because of how my skirt hardly covered my thighs thanks to my long, tall legs. My top hardly buttoned past the middle area of my breasts, leaving some of my cleavage showing. I wore white camisoles underneath my button-up to hide half my cleavage, but the cleavage left showing sent the boys into a frenzy as I studied after school.

But what was I to do? Our school only offered four sizes, and those were small, medium, large, and extra large. I wore a medium, which hardly fit, yet a large sagged far too much for me to wear. I decided one day that it was time to get a large. I figured it would shrink a bit in the wash, and my mother could send it to Mrs. Ella, our neighbor, to get it fit. Unfortunately, uniforms shipped slowly and it was another two weeks until mine would arrive for pick-up.

The name “Sexy Sarah” was chanted by the entire football team as I made my way down the hallways, and for some reason it made me upset. So I made my way to my only safe haven after school – Mr. Jennings’s room. Mr. Jennings had been my literature teacher all four years of high school, and whenever I had a problem, I could always go to him. To be honest, I actually had a bit of a crush on him.

I can’t imagine a girl not finding him handsome. He was tall and lean, but full of muscle. You could see his arm muscle through his white button-up long-sleeve, and you can’t help but want to touch his arms. Rumors often went out that he had boners during class because his dick was so big. But I could tell that he was just a large man, because I was always staring at his cock. It never once changed sizes, so I knew he must be naturally huge.

I arrived in his classroom during his conference hour. “Mr. Jennings, do you have any conferences today? I’m quite frustrated, and I would just like to relax in here if that’s okay. I brought a book, so I will keep quiet”. I secretly hoped it would just be me and him, so we could have a chance to talk.

He put his hand on my head and brushed my hair, as he said “Of course you can stay in here. I don’t have a conference, but I do need to run to the front office to pick up a file. Just sit tight, relax, and do what you have to do.” He looked at me so kindly, in a way that no man had before.

I nodded, as chills ran down my spine – Mr. Jennings’s hand brushed across my ear, one of my hot-spots. My pussy was getting wet, and I was hoping to God that it wouldn’t show through my crème colored skirt. He left the room, as I thought to myself. ‘Am I attracted to Mr. Jennings’s? Is he attracted to me?’ I felt myself starting to blush. No, that’s silly. He’s my 27 year old teacher, and I’m only 18. What am I thinking? Just get your book out, Sarah.

As I reached for my book, one of the buttons popped off of my shirt leaving two inches of my cleavage showing. Double-D breasts are hard to pack into a teenager’s school uniform, especially when it’s too small. I realized that the camisole was too see-through for me to get away with. So I pulled out my needle and thread from Home-Ec class to attempt to sew on the button that had fallen off so many times before back onto my shirt. I was never really taught to sew, so I was basically winging it. I had to get my shirt put back together before Mr. Jennings came into the room.

“I’m back! Sorry that I took so lo- long…” Mr. Jennings paused as he saw my breasts hanging halfway out of my shirt, and I saw the bulge in the crotch of his pants growing larger for the first time. Was he really getting aroused over me? I had to admit, seeing that he was attracted to me was pleasing me, and my little panties just kept getting wetter and wetter. I was staring at him so deeply that I pricked myself in the left breast with my needle.

“Here, let me help you sew that back on. It’s rather hard for a person to do something like that on their own.” I thanked Mr. Jennings’s and walked over to his desk as he sat down. I noticed how visible his erection was as he sat on his large leather chair, and for a moment all I could think about was sliding that huge cock into my pussy, but I knew that would never happen.

“You’ll have to sit on my lap, Sarah. It will be easier that way. You’re a little too tall for me to do that unless you sit down.” I knew I could have easily pulled up a chair, and I knew that this was wrong. I’m his student, and he’s my teacher. I could tell that Mr. Jennings wanted me just as much as I wanted him. I don’t know how I knew, but I just did.

I handed him the needle and sat on his lap. I could feel the wetness from my dripping pussy soak onto his crotch, and I immediately started to worry. As I sat down, I also felt his cock grow even larger, until it was a full-on erection that I was sure would be standing straight up if it wasn’t constricted by his pants.

Mr. Jennings sewed and sewed, but he was having a hard time inserting the needle into the fabric. He laid his hand against my upper chest to gain some control of my shirt. His cock was still as hard as ever, and I couldn’t take it anymore. I grabbed a hold of his hand, and took the needle and thread from his other and set it on his desk.

“Is something wrong Sarah?” He looked nervous. “If you are uncomfortable you can walk over to the Home-Ec teacher’s room in the C building. She’s working late too”. The hand that I held, laying against my upper chest had a sweaty palm. I knew right then and there, it was time to make my move. It was time to make my naughty school-girl dreams come true, right then and there in Mr. Jennings’s room.

I slowly ran his hand down my chest and guided him to cup my breast. I told him softly “It’s okay, Mr. Jennings, I want you too. There’s nothing wrong with this.” I looked into his eyes with compassion, and that let him know I was being sincere. Reassured, his other hand reached up to stroke the side of my face and neck.

“You like when I stroke your neck and ears, don’t you?” I nodded. “You’re a gorgeous girl, Sarah. God never made something more beautiful in the world. I can’t help but look at you this way.” He neared toward me and slowly, with the tip of his wet tongue, licked up and down my neck, occasionally stopping to suck and bite my neck, or nibble and lick my ears.

I undid the rest of my shirt and slowly removed my camisole. The camisole has a built-in bra, so as I pulled it off, my double-D breasts plopped down against my body. He didn’t expect to see my breasts so quickly, so Mr. Jennings was taken aback. He reached his hand inside of my skirt and maneuvered his way through my wet, freshly shaven pussy, and circled my clitoris as he took slow, deep sucks on each nipple. I almost collapsed against him from the pleasure. It was nothing like anything any high school boy could ever offer.

I locked his classroom door and closed the blinds, and as I walked toward him I wiggled out of my skirt and panties, leaving only my socks and shoes on. I unbuckled his belt and unzipped his pants to find his cock already peeping out through his boxer briefs. As my pussy got wetter and wetter, I sucked and licked the head of his dick making it harden even more.

Mr. Jennings’s pulled down his pants to reveal the largest pair of balls I had ever seen. Somehow this turned me on, and I curiously got down on my knees to give them a taste. Licking slowly at first, being cautious as to if he would like it or not. After a minute I could no longer help myself, and found myself sucking both balls into my mouth at once, as I stroked his cock with my hands.

As small drops of sweat dripped down Mr. Jennings’s forehead, he picked me up and laid me across his desk, pushing all of his papers, pens, and books to the floor. Aggressively spreading my legs, he teased me with the head of his cock – slowly inserting it over and over, but not his whole dick. I moaned with pleasure, and the more I moaned, the deeper he thrust. Thankfully he was the only teacher working late, and no one would be around to hear us. I could moan as loud as I wanted.
His huge cock was so thick that it just ripped me open, and although it hurt, it felt amazing. The head of his dick bumped my cervix in a way that was not painful, but erotically relaxing. I loosened up and laid back, massaging my breasts as he held me from the hips and thrusted into me over and over again.

He fucked me for hours and I wondered if he would ever stop, but I prayed that he would keep on going. I felt my pussy tighten up and swell, almost as if I was about to urinate. A feeling I had never experienced. Embarrassed and confused, I asked him to stop. “I think I have to use the restroom, my bladder feels full. I’m so sorry.”

With those words, he smiled and started to fuck me harder. So hard that my breasts bounced up and down, back and forth. The feeling got more intense each second, and I worried that he wasn’t taking me seriously. Strangely, the feeling was delightful. Within seconds, I let out a warm creamy liquid all over Mr. Jennings, and he pulled out his cock, cumming all over my breasts.

He put his head between my legs to lick up the cream as I put each breast in my mouth and suckled, just eager to taste his semen. We dried off using paper towels and dressed slowly, still staring at one another as if we wanted more. Mr. Jennings walked me to his car and drove me home. The whole way he stroked my neck and face with his right hand, thanking me for sharing my body with him.

As I stepped out of the car he gave me a kiss, long and unforgettable. Our tongues danced in each other’s mouths, and he stroked my breast as he rubbed my pussy, still wet, with his other hand. “Be sure to tell your mother that you’ll be staying late for the rest of the semester for extra credit. Well, you don’t have to… But I need to make love to you again, Sarah. I hope that you’ll stop by more often. You were amazing today.”

I smiled, waved goodbye, and walked up the driveway and into my home. I stayed late everyday for the rest of the year, having the best sex of my life each day from the man of my dreams. We never dated, but I know we had fallen in love. A secret love, just between us. But you can just call it “extra credit”.

Cock Rings: You’ve heard about them, wondered about them, and maybe you’ve already owned and used a few. They also go by the names “erection rings,” or “penis rings”. They come in many shapes and sizes,  and are made of all different materials. A cock ring is a device to help a man keep an erection if he has trouble maintaining one, and some say that they even help a man keep one for a longer period of time. Some people report an increase sensitivity of the penis, and in some cases even report a slight increase in length, width, and altogether girth of the penis.

Cock rings can be placed on the penis and scrotum in a number of ways, depending on the ring size and material. They can be used around the base of the penis, or underneath the head of the penis. They can even be used around both the base of the penis and scrotum at once, or the scrotum alone.

You can find erection rings made in several different sizes and materials including silicone, rubber, jelly, metal, plastic, and even wood. Cock rings are sold at prices that range anywhere from $1.99 to over $100 at some stores, so you really have to do your research to find one of both good value and price. Thus, the reason my fiancé and I prefer EdenFantasys.com. You can find some wonderful erection rings for under $20.

I recommend buying a few at one time, that way you can see which material works best for you. Not all cock rings will give you what you need. Jelly might not give you enough “grip” or “squeeze,” and plastic may feel too rigid. Metal may feel too heavy, and wood may feel too light. It’s just like medications – you need to see what works best for you. Note: Wooden cock rings are currently not sold at EdenFantays.

But even after knowing all this information, one major question still arises in the backs of our heads about these little rings: Do cock rings propose any risk of injury or health problems?

A licensed clinical psychologist and sex therapist, as well as a board-certified sexologist, Dr. Sandor Gardos explains in a Q&A page, the basic injuries that are caused by using cock rings, and how to prevent them from happening. Here is a small excerpt that I found to be most helpful:

“Erection rings are not generally considered dangerous or harmful as long as they are used correctly and safely. Most importantly, they should not be kept in place for more than half an hour. When a man is erect, there are tubes (known as corpus cavernosa) that are engorged with blood. But, this blood does not carry oxygen to the tissues of the penis. Having an unwavering erection can actually cut off blood supply to the penis. If left on for too long, you can even burst blood vessels, causing bruising, swelling, and sometimes even vascular damage. For these reasons, I often recommend that if you wish to experiment, use a ring made of fabric or rubber — something that can be cut in an emergency — and not metal. And, for God’s sake, don’t make it so tight that you are ready to burst!” – Dr. Sandor Gardos

The rest of this conversation can be found by visiting this link: http://www.mypleasure.com/education/qanda/questions/9.asp

Therefore, what we have learned from Dr. Gardos is that erection rings are not dangerous, as long as they are used correctly. If you are a beginner, please try and choose a cock ring that is made of a stretchy material; A ring that can be easily removed if you begin to feel uncomfortable, or if you are in any pain. Here are some good materials for beginners that can easily be removed at home,
and shouldn’t cause much discomfort:

• Jelly – Such as the Ring O Erection Ring by The Screaming O
• Rubber – Such as the Rubber Multipurpose Ring by Cal Exotics
• Silicone – Such as the Beginner Cock Ring by Tantus

If you currently use those types of rings listed above, but are unhappy with the amount of grip you are getting, consider using hard Plastic – Such as the Bo Pleasure Object Cock Ring by LELO. Plastic is more solid, gives you a better grip, but can easily be cut by a professional in case of an emergency. Wooden cock rings are also another great material that can be cut in case of an emergency.

Metal cock rings should only be used by very advanced cock ring users. If you are unsure whether you are advanced or not, you probably aren’t. Advanced cock ring users are those who know their cock ring size without looking at a piece of paper. They have owned several different cock rings, made of all different materials, and have used them regularly with no issues for more than a few months.

For those of you who are not advanced, but really want to try metal cock rings, I would practice with a quick-release metal cock ring such as the Super 8 Ring by Power of Love. This ring is designed to go around both the cock and balls, but can be used either way. It features a latch to remove the cock ring in case it becomes uncomfortable. Once you have decided that metal rings are for you, you can progress to choosing other metal cock rings.

Lastly, one should always know their proper measurements before purchasing any cock ring. Young men have been known to show penis growth up until age 20 in rare cases, so you should do this often to be safe. To find yours, or your partner’s measurements, follow these simple steps. All you will need is a piece of measuring tape and an erect penis. You might also want to get a pen and paper to write down your size so you don’t forget.

Note: You can do the following steps with a string, and then measure the string next to a ruler if you do not have a measuring tape.

1.. Get an erection. I suppose your significant other can help you with this one. It is of utmost importance that you are fully erect or the measurements can be incorrect.

2.  Have you or your partner measure these four places, or at least the place where the male wishes to wear his cock ring. While measuring, be sure to get as snug of a measurement as possible, without causing discomfort.

• The base of your shaft (where your penis meets your lower pelvis)
• The base of your shaft AND scrotum together at once (you want to get as much scrotum in there as possible, and you want to wrap the measuring tape as tightly as possible)
• Your scrotum by itself (once again, as tightly as possible)
• The area underneath the head of your cock (under the mushroom top)

3.  Now for the calculating. Cock rings are usually measured in diameter. To achieve this number, take the measurement of the area you would like to wear your cock ring and divide that number by 3.14 (PI). The average diameter for a penis is between 1.5 and 2.25 inches, but don’t worry, cock rings come in all sizes.

Every product page for a cock ring shows the maximum stretched diameter. You want to choose one that is slightly smaller than your measurement. A good size to start at would be about a half inch smaller for more solid materials (Ex: metal, plastic, etc.) and an inch smaller for a jelly rings.

I hope this article helped you curious lovers out just a bit, and good luck in shopping for your new cock ring! Don’t forget to be safe!

If you’re anything like myself, you’ve harvested quite the crop of sex toys in your home. It gets harder and harder to hide them as the days pass by. Your drawers become full, and under the bed is not an option anymore. You’re even using shoe boxes, but those just take up more space! So what are some creative ways to hide and store toys, and what can you do to reduce the clutter? Your answers are right in this article!

1.  Get rid of what you don’t need – You do it with just about everything else in your home, such as shoes and clothes. Take some time to sit down and think about what toys you don’t really use anymore. My rule is that if it hasn’t been used in the last two months, it’s probably time to either start using it again or throw it away.

Yes, I know – It’s hard to throw away something that you bought. That’s why you need to also think about why you haven’t used this toy lately. Have you found that it just isn’t getting the job done anymore, or have you run out of batteries and are too lazy to go buy more? If your toy simply isn’t satisfying you, set it aside in a pile and you can either throw it away, or follow my next step.

2.  So long as you have no STD’s, you can think about possibly re-gifting your toy to family or friends who are willing to receive a used toy. You should NEVER re-gift porous toys unless you have used them with condoms, and even then, I personally wouldn’t. But hey, if you roll that way, let it go! Re-gifting is a great way to clean out your closet and make use of toys that are in good condition and still work well.

If you’re not sure how to “bring it up,” just try telling your friend that you have this really cool sex toy that you didn’t use that much, and explain to them that it is non-porous and can be re-used safely. Also let them know about the qualities of the toy, and tell them that you don’t want to waste your hard earned money.

Maybe you have a few new toys that are a lot like others you own – these are PERFECT for easy re-gifting. Glass toys are especially great because even if they’ve been used, they don’t absorb any bodily fluids. Give your glass toy a scrub-down and it’s ready to be given away to someone new!

3.  Invest in proper toy storage – There are several stores where you can find quality toy boxes, including EdenFantasys. If you’re simply looking to disguise a toy, think about investing in the ToiTissue container by ToiBocks. It’s disguised, and fully useful, as an actual tissue box, except for the fact that you can hide your toys safely underneath the tissues.

Maybe you need something a little larger that is suitable for storage at home, and for travel. If this is your case, check out the Devine Playchest by DevineToys. It looks like a large makeup box/suitcase, and can easily fit under a bed or in the back of a closet, without being extremely noticeable. It also easily locks, which is great if you have nosy family members lurking around your home.

You can also build toy storage on your own as a fun project, or buy toy storage from stores local to you, such as Wal-Mart or Target. Items such as safes, trunks, or plastic shoe boxes work equally as well. The more “normal” your toy storage looks, the less likely peepers are to peep. Nobody would expect a dildo to be underneath some tissues, or a whole set of BDSM whips and floggers to be inside of a walk-in safe!

Note: Keep in mind, when it comes to buying sex toy storage, bigger is often better. The bigger you buy, the more you have potential to fit inside… And the less toys you have lying around your home!

4.  Get good at hiding things – If you’re low on cash, and need quick places to hide your toys, there are tons of places around your house that are perfect for hiding toys. First off, the bathroom. A lot of toys blend right in as cosmetic items such as lipsticks, mascara bottles, etc. If you have some room in your makeup box, throw a few items in for safekeeping.

Then there’s the kitchen. It sounds a little risky, but even I have those very high cupboards that never get opened. I actually store all of my lubricants in my kitchen cupboards because my roommate never looks there. She has never once found my stash, to this very day, and we’ve been living together for three years now!

You can also utilize furniture and objects around your home. Pillows with zippers can easily disguise a dildo or two inside, and copying the tissue box idea is never a bad idea. If your dresser has a space underneath, start putting a few vibrators or dildos underneath. Bullets and mini-vibes can easily be hidden in an ugly old pair of socks that no one wants to wear anymore. Be creative and think backwards!

5.  Use your toys as other objects – If you are really getting desperate, and you have tried all of the above with no success, this is a great idea for a quick fix. A lot of toys look like other objects, and can easily be mistaken for them. Have a pair of remote-controlled bullets that look a lot like an MP3 player? Stick them in your MP3 case and no one will ever suspect a thing.

A lot of glass dildos and probes have flat glass bases. Disguise a discreet dildo as a fancy bracelet holder, or art to display above the mantle. Glass toys are already a work of art, so you technically aren’t fooling anyone with that excuse.

My roommate has been using a small-scale silicone dildo as a door stopper for about a year now. She’s actually stopped using it altogether, and we consider it to be the actual door stopper. It has a suction cupped base, and looks nothing like a penis, so it blends right in to our apartment.

6.  Toy Donations – It may sound gross, or it may sound awesome – either way,  these places are out there. Simply search “Sex Toy Donations” online and you’ll see what I mean. People around the world will accept your unwanted toys for free, and some will even pay cash in return! This is a great way to get your money back and make room for new toys.

I hope these tips have been helpful, and for more great tips please check out the forum on EdenFantasys.com. Tons of awesome community members are sharing their advice, feedback, and personal experiences everyday for you to read!

In the world today people are coming and going constantly, whether it be to pick up the kids from soccer practice, or rushing to work so you aren’t more than 15 minutes late. Some mornings we barely have the time to kiss our significant other goodbye, and some nights when we come home we’d honestly rather sleep than waste our precious Z’s on a quickie.

But really, how do you make time for sex when you have such a busy life? Well, my first answer for you is, to not give up. There are ways to make the time, but it isn’t always easy. Sex, just like any other aspect to a healthy relationship, requires time and effort. Not just a little bit of effort either. No matter what age you are, this problem is totally normal. Everyone hits a dry spot from time to time, but the good news is that there is a way out.

Here are a few tips that I hope will be of use for you and your partner. A few of them may sound silly, but I guarantee they will work out for you in the long run, if not right away. You can try them all at once, or one at a time. However, I recommend trying them all slowly over time, or a few in combination,  to see what works for you.

1.  Keep a daily/weekly planner – You were required to do this in middle school, and you probably have one for work. Now it’s time to make one for your personal life. Start by simply writing down what you know you have to do over the week. Write down your cousin’s 21st birthday party, and even write down the hours you’ll be working. If you need to grocery shop, find an open space or two and schedule that time for shopping.

After you’ve written down your week’s plans, look at all the open spaces. Simply ask your significant other what times he/she has off during the upcoming week. The time slots that match up are the time slots where you need to go for the gold! Those are the days that you need to see if someone can cover that last hour at work, or see if your sister can babysit the kids for a night. Try everything you can to make time for you and your sweetheart.

2.  Stay motivated, and keep your partner motivated – Once you’ve found out when you have time to slip in some love-making, get yourself motivated. Maybe stop by the lingerie shop, or purchase a sexy outfit from EdenFantasys to spice things up. EdenFantasys also has some really awesome kits for a special night, such as the Weekender Kit by KamaSutra, or the Sweet Heart Chocolate Box Kit by KamaSutra. These little things will get you excited, and keep you motivated for a long-needed night of intimacy that lies ahead for you and your lover.

3.  Get distractions out of the way – When you have some spare time to yourself, get the distractions out of the way. If you know your lover is constantly upset about the dishes not being done before bed, get them done while he/she is away at work. If the kids are always walking in, see if a family member or friend can babysit them for the night. The faster you can get things done, the better – leaving more time for you and your significant other to have sex.

4.  Don’t overwork yourself – Take another look at your schedule. Do you see any tasks that can afford to wait until the following week? Are there any tasks from the next week that are easy enough to get done today, rather than next Saturday? Feel free to make any appropriate switches. Get things done today that can get done without wearing yourself out, but if you’re already feeling tired, try to move things around in your schedule without cutting into your intimate time.

Take naps, if you have the time during the day. Even if it’s only for 30 minutes to an hour, it can benefit you greatly and increase your energy later in the day. If you’re planning to make love during the day, get your rest at night, to leave you energized for your following work day. I cannot “stress” this tip enough – no pun intended – overworking yourself leads to unnecessary stress, and will take away from a good night of sex in some cases.

5.  Do not get upset if it doesn’t work out – You will try, and you will fail from time to time. Maybe even a little more than expected. Simply keep working at it, and remember not to be upset with yourself or your partner if things don’t work out. Don’t throw a fit when the sex wasn’t as good as you wanted it to be. Don’t roll over and make dirty comments when your partner says he/she is too tired. If they get mad at you, hold back as much as you can, and try to explain how you really meant to try.

Fighting never benefited anyone, so keep that in mind. There’s other ways to enjoy your love besides having sex. If you know there’s a night where things just won’t work out, rent a movie and enjoy a lovely night on the couch cuddling with your lover as you watch a romantic comedy… Or a horror movie, if that’s what you’re into!

6.  Talk to your doctor – Unfortunately, as some of us age, our sex drive ages as well. We may not be as interested in sex as we used to be, and some of us lose all interest completely. This is normal, and nothing to be ashamed of. Your doctor can simply recommend a vitamin supplement such as AZO Intimacy, or put you on hormone therapy to help increase your libido. This can also help your lack of energy, which surprisingly plays a huge part in your sex life.

7.  Talk to your partner – Before you do any of the things above, sit down and talk to your partner. Don’t do it at the dinner table, but do it in the bedroom. Don’t whine, cry, or get upset. Simply talk about it. Explain that you are trying several things to help improve your love life in the bedroom, and ask them if they can help as well. Maybe you just want them to acknowledge that you are trying, and if that’s the case, talk to them about that.

Talking is key to fixing any problem in a relationship. You’d be surprised just how one conversation can change everything! You may be very pleased with the results you get from just have one conversation with your loved one.

These are some of the best tips out there, and if you put effort into practicing them, you will notice a huge change in not only your sex life, but your entire relationship. You will be able to manage your time better, learn what works best for you and your partner, and finally get back to enjoying sex like you were once able to. Every healthy relationship needs a little bit of regular intimacy to function correctly, and it’s never too late to start up again!

Happy Love Making!