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Day 3: How did you discover you were kinky?

Thursday, September 2, 2010

This is my second installment of Thirty Days of Kink, though it will probably post after my third. For links to the others, click here. Day 3: How did you discover you were kinky? There were multiple indicators that my sexual appetites were a bit different than those of the vast majority of my peers. [...]

Stupid Spoiled Whores

Thursday, August 26, 2010

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I dunno why I always jump on the bandwagon of babble these days. I’m also not entirely sure why I always do it long after most people have stopped babbling about it. But what confuses me most is my penchant for writing about things that make no sense to me. This topic confuses the shit [...]

When Pain Fails as Punishment

Thursday, August 19, 2010

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Yesterday was pretty shitty. I got in trouble. And I got beat. The beating is rarely the punishment. I mean, he always means for it to be, but neither of us can control what the beating does to our respective parts. And yesterday was no different. The beating, regardless of how angry M is, often [...]

30 Days: Hard Limits

Thursday, August 12, 2010

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On my personal blog, I’m working on a couple prompt projects. I’ve been blogging since 2003 (on Insatiable Desire since 2005), and while I’m sure there’s a ton I haven’t covered, you start to lose track of what you’ve talked about when you have over a thousand posts. Which, in turn, makes it difficult to [...]

Forced Nudity

Thursday, August 5, 2010

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The first thing I read this morning was a post by a good friend of mine about how her owner likes to make her strip and just stare at her various parts. Usually while masturbating. And usually with her spread every which way so that he can see all of her. It got me thinking [...]

Combating the Dark Side (of sex toy reviewing)

Thursday, July 29, 2010

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DarthSarah painted a pretty bleak picture in her post about The Dark Side. I bet she even drew some of you over to her side with a buncha “Yeah, you’re right! That’s annoying!”s. I know I was tempted. She is right. After a while, sex toy reviewing becomes repetitive, monotonous and boring. But there are [...]

Scene to Me

Thursday, July 22, 2010

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I’m sure, by now, if you’re active in the sex blogging community, or know a kinkster who is, you’ve probably heard of FetLife. I belong to a group there called BDSM Glossary (FetLife is free, but requires log in to view content.). It’s a group dedicated to gathering set definitions for specific terms heard around [...]

Natural Order/Misogyny

Thursday, July 15, 2010

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A couple weeks ago, I mentioned that M believes in a natural order. That means, basically, that he believes that men and women each have their place in the balance of life, and that they are not on equal footing. I hear you grumbling. But it’s not what you think. M’s belief in a natural [...]

I am Grateful

Thursday, July 1, 2010

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This morning, I woke to hands gliding along my naked body, teasing and tormenting along their slow, gentle journey. As I swept the sleep cobwebs from the corners of my mind, moist lips and a nimble tongue began nibbling their way up and down my back. Sharp teeth in the crook of my neck pulled [...]

Our Gorean Side

Thursday, June 24, 2010

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Swords are often drawn on Gor over women, and particularly over women. Women are prizes, perfections and treasures. It is no wonder that men will fight over them with such ferocity. Renegades of Gor, page 297 There’s an aspect of my slavery that I don’t often talk about, anymore. It’s stupid, really, because it’s still [...]

Love is Patient…. and Slow as Molasses

Thursday, June 17, 2010

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Before I met M, I had never been on a date. Well, unless you include double (or quadruple, or an all out mob of friends) dates in high school. I don’t, really, since you really don’t get a chance to be alone with and relate to your significant other in those situations. I had maybe [...]

Opposites

Thursday, June 10, 2010

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I think… I’ve been spending too much time with too many feminists. Or… I’ve at least spent too much time reading what they tweet, since I don’t really talk to too many people in… Well, anywhere, really. A combination of self-imposed semi-isolation intended to avoid the drama, and not my friends, but eventually it starts [...]

Late to the Party

Friday, June 4, 2010

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I know I’m a little late to the party. That’s cause I was gonna stay out of it. I was gonna shut my mouth and laugh at all of you from behind my computer screen, rather than tell you what I think. But then someone I have a bit of respect for called the Liberator [...]

Sometimes I’m a Bitch

Thursday, May 27, 2010

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I tend to get really bitchy if we don’t have sex for a while. Especially if M’s efforts at sadism feel more like “Geez, I better hit her before she hates me. Ho hum. I’m hitting you. You can stop whining now.” than “Ooo I love the way she squirms when I hit her like [...]

No Such Thing as Sex Positivity in Schenectady

Thursday, May 20, 2010

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It’s funny. It seems the harder we work for sex positivity in America (and the rest of the world) the less open New York -namely, the Capital Region- is to all things sexual. As most of you know, I live in a uniquely named town called Schenectady (skeh-neck-tuh-dee). Though lately people are calling it “Little [...]